LGBTQ+
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LGBTQ+
Sexual orientation and gender are parts of your whole self. People find their "fit" in a wide range of identities. Exploring this part of yourself for the first time can be overwhelming and isolating. And it can be liberating and exciting.
It’s scary to realize that your life path may be different than those around you and potentially face stigma. Your LGBTQ+ identity is a strength. You are a member of a beautiful, diverse, and welcoming community of people across the world and throughout history who have dared to live as who they are. Remember, whether it’s your high school friends eating lunch together in the library, or any of the organizations listed in our community directory, you are never, ever alone.
If you need guidance as you find your identity consider talking to someone in your school's wellness center or utilize the Coming Out Handbook from the Trevor Project.
Let's Break the Stigma
According to the Williams Institute (UCLA School of Law) , 9.5% of United State's youth aged 13-17 identify as LGBTQ+
The Movement Advancement Project (MAP), a Colorado think tank organization that promotes equity in research and public policy, reports that LGBTQ+ youth are more likely than their peers to face family rejection, homelessness, discrimination, and bullying. It is important that we work to minimize these harmful impacts.
Supporting our LGBTQ+ Community
Being an ally is about supporting equal rights and justice for LGBTQ+ folks, and it’s also about helping your friends know that you have their back and they aren’t alone.
Educate. Take the responsibility of learning about LGBTQ+ history and experiences. Taking the initiative to learn removes the burden of education from your LGBTQ+ peers. Explore websites like LGBTQ History and the Smithsonian National Museum of History LGBTQ+ articles and online exhibitions or the Love is Love collection of TED Talks highlighting LGBTQ+ stories and issues.
Don't Assume. It’s impossible to know what a person’s gender identity or sexual orientation is just by looking at them, avoid assuming someone's identity based on their outward appearance. But do assume there could be LGBTQ+ people in every space you’re in. Assuming that everyone around you is straight makes things harder for LGBTQ+ people.
Speak Out. If you notice bullying or oppressive language, say something. Anti-LGBTQ+ comments and jokes are hurtful. If you see anyone being hurt or bullied because of their gender identity or sexual orientation, let an adult know.
Never "Out" Someone. It’s important to let people come out in their own way, on their own terms. Telling people that a friend is LGBTQ+ without their permission can break trust and even put them in danger. Don't share this information without consent.
Parents, Caregivers, and Teachers
This website features information from members of the LGBTQIA+ community about what they are glad their own parents did, and what they wish they had done when they came out to protect their mental health. Visit the site to download resources. Here is a list of quick tips from the site to reference when your child comes out to you:
Tell them that they are in charge of who they come out to and when they decide to do that.
Reassure them you are always on their side.
Let them know this only changes what they want it to change.
Remember this is the same child you loved yesterday, and last week. Continue to love them as you always have.
