Some important areas to note:
The Pre-frontal Cortex: The Wise Old Owl
The logic and problem-solving centre of the brain
Houses our higher-order and executive functioning skills (see more below)
The Amygdala: The Watchdog
The home of the fight/flight/freeze/fawn response
The Hippocampus: The Elephant that Never Forgets
Associated with our long term memory
These are the higher-order functions of our brain that help us with complex thoughts and functions including:
Working memory
Emotional Control
Flexibility
Sustained attention
Task initiation
Planning and sequencing
Prioritizing
Inhibiting our impulses
Check your expectations: the frontal lobes and executive functions are not fully developed until age 25-30
Kids with ADHD tend to be about 30% behind their peers
When we become stressed or emotional, our logical frontal lobes (including those executive functions) go offline
When a student is escalated, attempts to reason, teach, or correct are likely to be ineffective
Verbal input may actually further escalate the situation