Part 1: Apology

Using these words makes a difference in our relationships. When we apologize and forgive in a sincere way, we are able to build bridges by showing that we respect others. This Tool will give us important words to include in our classroom and community’s common language.

It makes us feel bad to say we did/said something that hurt someone. It’s hard to admit we aren’t right. It’s embarrassing. Sometimes we feel ashamed. Tone of voice and body language are very important parts of apologizing.

Part 2: Forgiveness

How do we show we forgive someone? What do we say or do?  What does it really mean to say, “I forgive you”? How does saying, “I forgive you” affect the relationship of the people involved? 

What’s the hard part about forgiving someone? How do we let go of our hurt feelings and move on, especially if we know the person is just going to do the same things again later on?

In order to admit mistakes and do the “right” thing, it takes courage and self-esteem. An apology that is sincere opens the door to self-responsibility and forgiveness. To forgive someone takes equal strength because it requires letting go of anger and resentment. To forgive someone does not necessarily mean we have to forget, but willing to forgive. If we are the one holding the hot ember of anger, resentment, or hatred, we are the ones still getting burned.