Grounding is a self-soothing skill to use when you are having a bad day or dealing with a lot of stress, overwhelming feelings, and/or intense anxiety. Grounding is a technique that helps keep you in the present and helps reorient you to the here-and-now and to reality. It can also serve as a distraction from the difficulties you are currently dealing with.
If you or your scholar need help being grounded then try following along with this poster.
A more advanced version would be to identify 5 things that are [insert color], 4 things that feel [insert texture], 3 things that sound [insert volume of noise], 2 things that smell [insert type of scent], and 1 thing that tastes [insert flavor].
Describe your environment in detail using all your senses. We have five senses (sight, sound, touch, smell and taste)
Play a “categories” game with yourself. Say your favorite TV shows, Say your favorite animals, Say your favorite music artists.
Describe an everyday activity in great detail. For example, describe a meal that you cook
Use an image: Picture your negative feelings floating away on a cloud
Say a positive and focused present statement
Read something: read labels, read a book. Say the words out loud. Sing the words.
Use humor. Tell a joke. Read some cartoons.
Trace your hands with a pen.
Touch various objects around you
Press your feet into ground to remind you that you are connect to the ground.
Carry a small object in your pocket, like a small rock, coin, toy. Touch it when you feel triggered.
Notice your body: Wiggling your toes in your shoes, feel your back against the chair. You are connected to the world.
Stretch. Extend your fingers, arms or legs as far as you can; roll your head around.
Exercise. Go for a jog. Jump up and down. Do some push-ups. Walk slowly, noticing each footstep, saying “left,” “right” with each step.
Eat something. Describe the flavors in detail to yourself.
Focus on breathing. Noticing each inhale and exhale. Repeat a pleasant word with each breath.
Hold your favorite stuffed animal