Cyberbullying is defined as the repeated use of digital communication tools (such as the Internet and cell phones) to make another person angry, unhappy, or afraid. Sending unpleasant texts or instant messages, sharing embarrassing images or videos on social media, and spreading malicious rumors online or via cell phones are all examples of cyberbullying. Consider whether the offender is being intentional and repeatedly cruel to find out if it is cyberbullying. If the event has only occurred once or twice, then the offender may need to learn online behaviors.
That's why it's crucial to have a conversation about online and digital conduct with your child before he or she begins engaging with others online or through devices. Expectations of using devices and communications online should be taught and monitored. By teaching students to act responsibly and respectfully, they can avoid cyberbullying and inappropriate content. Important basics are:
Communicate appropriately
Keep private information private (addresses, passwords, images, secrets)
Don't lie, steal or cheat online (don't plagiarize work, don't share school answers, give credit)
Be an upstander (Stand up for anyone you see is being bullied)
Report misbehaviors you see (do your part to make the internet be a nice place)
Follow family and school rules
Think before you post text or share.
Remember what is said online stays active.
The student may feel compelled to retaliate, but it's preferable to assist the student in defusing the situation, protecting him or herself, and making logical measures to stop the bullying. The initial first steps are contact administration.
Reassure the student has an adult who is there to support them.
Allow and recommend the student take a break from the computer or device.
Contact the school to see if there are any ways a parent can block specific people or sites.
Empower the student to take specific steps.
Collect as many facts or evidence as you can.
Sign off the computer or device.
Don't respond or retaliate to any bully.
Save and print or screenshot any bullying messages.
Tell a trusted adult- this can be a teacher, parent or guardian.
Social media platforms including Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat have taken steps to assist individuals who have been bullied. If a kid is bullied on a website or in an app, go to the company's website and seek for a section called "Community Guidelines," "safety advice," or anything similar. It might provide suggestions like blocking the bully or altering the settings.
To report the number, call your mobile phone provider. It's possible that you can block it or alter your phone number. For a price, many carriers offer additional anti-bullying capabilities.
If the communication contains threats, you will need to report the bullying to law enforcement.