Social Pragmatic Language

Pragmatic language is how children use language in a social setting. According to the American Speech-Language Hearing Association, social language encompasses three main areas:

Using language for different reasons, such as:

  • Greeting. Saying "hello" or "goodbye."

  • Informing. "I'm going to get a cookie."

  • Demanding. "Give me a cookie right now."

  • Promising. "I'm going to get you a cookie."

  • Requesting. "I want a cookie, please."

Changing language for the listener or situation, such as:

  • Talking differently to a baby than to an adult.

  • Giving more information to someone who does not know the topic. Knowing to skip some details when someone already knows the topic.

  • Talking differently in a classroom than on a playground.

Following rules for conversations and storytelling, such as:

  • Taking turns when you talk.

  • Letting others know the topic when you start talking.

  • Staying on topic.

  • Trying another way of saying what you mean when someone did not understand you.

  • Using gestures and body language, like pointing or shrugging.

  • Knowing how close to stand to someone when talking.

  • Using facial expressions and eye contact.


The following are links to free resources to work on your child's social, or pragmatic, language skills: