Domestic violence is one of the most common forms of violence in the world. According to Nix and Richards (2021), “1 in 4 women and 1 in 10 men report experiencing DV in their lifetime”. Women are disproportionately affected by domestic violence, especially women of intersecting minority or marginalized identities, including those based on one's sexual orientation, race, immigration status, socioeconomic status, etc. Domestic violence takes many different forms, and can be financial, emotional, medical, and technological in nature, as opposed to being merely physical or sexual (IACP, 2020). The onset of the COVID-19 pandemic exacerbated the already ongoing "shadow pandemic" of domestic violence and allowed abusers to take greater advantage of the pre-existing power dynamics and gender hierarchies that serve to facilitate the perpetration of domestic violence within the United States.
The United Nations defines domestic violence as, “a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner. Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person.
This includes any behaviors that
frighten
intimidate
terrorize
manipulate
hurt
humiliate
blame
injure
wound someone
Domestic abuse can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion, or gender. It can occur within a range of relationships including couples who are married, living together, or dating. Domestic violence affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels” (United Nations). The UN further highlights that victims can include children or other family or household members.
How do Experiences with Domestic Violence Differ Across Genders?
One stereotype commonly associated with domestic violence is that this phenomenon is only perpetrated by men against women within heterosexual relationships. This myth exists because of the perceived hierarchy of gender within society and the roles and characteristics that tend to be associated with different genders. Men are often seen as being more dominant and aggressive, while women are expected to be more passive and submissive; men tend to hold more power in relationships because of this structured hierarchy. In a nearly global culture of masculinity where men are less likely to report being victims of domestic violence because of conceptions of what constitutes a “strong man”, it is also important to note that domestic violence can be perpetrated against men in heterosexual relationships where the woman holds more power. As previously indicated, 1 out of every 10 men report experiencing domestic violence within their lifetimes (Nix & Richards, 2021). Around 51% of men and 81% of women report their cases (Warburton and Raniolo, 2020). However, this fails to account for instances which are not reported, whether due to feelings of shame regarding a loss of one’s masculinity, a lack of faith in existing legal structures, or other reasons. Reducing societal stigma surrounding men’s experiences of surviving all forms of domestic violence is vital to ensure that men and boys feel more comfortable reporting said experiences and are able to receive the mental and physical care that they need, in addition to possible financial and legal support (Marjaree Mason Center).
Approximately 1 out of every 4 women report experiencing some form of domestic violence during their lifetimes within the United States (Nix & Richards, 2021). Such violence includes acts of physical violence, emotional violence through behaviors such as stalking, and sexual violence, as well as many other forms (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence). The National Center for Injury Prevention and Control indicates that nearly 4.8 million domestic assaults are carried out against women each year but that less than 20% of survivors seek medical treatment following an experience of violence (National Organization for Women). Women’s educational, employment, and civic engagement opportunities are also endangered in the aftermath of acts of domestic violence, due to the extreme toll that such experiences can have on one’s physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing (Institute for Women’s Policy Research). Thus, just as it is vital to ensure that men are able to seek adequate medical and legal care following an experience of domestic violence, it is also important for millions of women across the United States to have access to such care, for the protection of one’s physical and mental health, as well as for the protection of one’s livelihood.
Domestic violence against women has been referred to as the "shadow pandemic" during the Covid-19 pandemic. Sexual harassment has increased following the onset of the pandemic (US News, 2021). Other instances of domestic violence have also increased overall since the spring of 2020, with 1 in 2 women experiencing or reporting knowing someone who has experienced some form of domestic violence in the last two years (UN Women, 2021). This does not discount the number of people of other genders with similar experiences, but it is important to note that women are disproportionately affected by domestic violence.
Members of the LGBTQIA+ community are at a much greater risk of enduring some form of domestic violence than are heterosexual, cisgender men and women. The perpetration of domestic and family violence against those within the LGBTQIA+ community occurs at alarmingly high rates, with 44% of lesbian women and 61% of bisexual women, 26% of gay men and 37.3% of bisexual men, and 54% of transgender and nonbinary individuals experiencing some form of domestic/family abuse during their lifetimes (Kozuch, 2020; NCADV, 2018). People involved in LGBTQIA+ relationships clearly have a much higher level of susceptibility to various types of violence. This includes people outside of the gender binary, who may not fall into traditionally accepted partner roles within a relationship. Domestic violence against those within the LGBTQIA+ community does not always fall within the realm of physical violence; abusers may perpetrate emotional violence by threatening to "out" their partners to friends, family, or their workplace and creating undue stress/fear. The perpetration of domestic violence against members of the LGBTQIA+ community has only worsened since the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic, with an additional 12.6% of gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM) reporting having experienced some form of domestic violence since the spring of 2020 (Stephenson et al., 2021).
It is further important to note that the risk of experiencing domestic and family violence during the COVID-19 pandemic has been even more potent for individuals of intersecting minority or marginalized identities in addition to being a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, based on one’s race, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, citizenship status, disability status, etc.
The number of individuals reporting experiences of Domestic Violence has further increased in recent years due to the COVID-19 pandemic and the implementation of stay at home orders. The onset of the pandemic and the ensuing lockdowns beginning in March 2020 resulted in an increase in domestic and family violence of approximately 8.1% in the United States. The data indicates that 1 in 2 women have come to experience or know someone who has experienced domestic and family violence since the start of the pandemic (UN Women, 2021). The data we found for DV cases during the pandemic is similar to data that was found during hurricanes and other disaster situations in the United States. When people in abusive situations are forced to remain together in dangerous situations, abuse can worsen while access to resources is severely diminished. According to the International Association of Chiefs of Police, victims may have to deal with greater rates of domestic violence due to having to spend more time with their abusers and to being isolated from their support systems (IACP, 2020). Abusers are using COVID-19 to their advantage, as they are forcing victims to stay isolated from their loved ones and are thus able to control them much more easily. COVID-19 has also resulted in significant unemployment causing victims to not have any financial income, thereby forcing them to stay with their abusers due to a lack of resources and financial stress (IACP, 2020).
Nix and Richards (2021) did a study that assessed the increase of domestic violence during the pandemic and “compared DV-related and other calls for law enforcement service for six jurisdictions from 1 January 2018 to 27 December 2020 to assess trends during the COVID-19 pandemic, and specifically, after state and local governments initiated stay-at-home orders. As expected, findings showed that DV-related calls for service generally increased the week stay-at-home orders went into effect, and declined throughout the remainder of the year”.
“Stay Home, Save Lives” was a movement to provide a safeguard for healthcare workers as a defense against Covid-19, but stay at home and shelter in place orders only created more control and power for abusers over their victims. Access to healthcare and other forms of aid such as, battered women's shelters, SafeHouse, and hotlines were limited by staffing issues, unemployment and stay at home orders, possibly eliminating safer options. Stay at home orders also worsened other conditions in the home. For example, technology such as ring doorbells and nest thermostats prevented victims from escaping abusive situations. Stay at home orders also confined children to the home and prevented the possibility of reporting instances of domestic violence at school.
There are other power structures that reinforce the continued practice of domestic and family violence aside from gender, as well. Power can be displayed in a range from physical and sexual violence, to threats and intimidation, blocking escape routes, and withholding of personal belongings such as phones to call for help (North, 2020). Power is more dangerous in the domestic sphere, especially during times such as the pandemic when partners and families were confined to the home, where abuse is private. Cultural norms play a role in the traditional family dynamic and can influence how entire groups view the issue of domestic and family violence. For example, in some cultures, domestic violence is a more acceptable practice because of their perception of a woman’s role as potentially submissive to men (Maji, 2021). In such instances, women are even less likely to report cases because of its cultural perception and the lack of justice for abusers. Another power structure is the legal system and how often a perpetrator receives justice. This was deterred by the pandemic as the progression of legal cases was slowed and people were forced to work from home. This, in turn, made it much more difficult for victims to obtain safety from their abusers with the help of legal tools such as restraining orders. Many cases, regardless of nature, were delayed or dismissed during the pandemic, leaving victims helpless and stuck. Police response times were also slow during the pandemic, likely due to issues with staffing and the elevated number of calls. The men’s support hotline experienced an increase in calls at the start of the pandemic.
During the pandemic, victims and abusers may also have experienced unemployment leading to more stress, and the lack of ability of victims to be financially independent and escape. Candace Bright shows that male unemployment rates and DV rates correlated during the pandemic (Bright, 2020). This stress may also have been transferred to the children, who also were stuck in the home due to online schooling. This presented an additional obstacle for many women, as, overall, women are likely to earn less than men in many industries and may not be able to afford to escape. Another issue that played into existing power structures is that of immigration status problems that were exacerbated by the pandemic conditions and an inability to file papers and establish residency. Undocumented people, specifically undocumented immigrant women, were more likely to face domestic violence. In many cases, domestic violence against undocumented people won’t appear physical. Victims could have been threatened by the withholding of important documents or the threat of reporting one’s undocumented status, and had no way to escape. Power structures also exist between ages. Children in the home may also become victims to domestic violence or are exposed to it from a young age. COVID worsened already abusive households and trapped not just women, but also children and the elderly inside the home, who are also disproportionately at risk of abuse, thus leaving victims with a lack of agency and control over their situations. While households and family makeup may look different, patterns of abuse against certain age groups remain consistent.
In 2013, the Violence Against Women Act was amended to include LGBTQIA+ women, native women and undocumented immigrants. A new policy that protects people of all genders from abuse should be introduced by the US Congress. Taking such an action would address domestic violence as a whole and protect everyone, not just specific groups of people.
Congress should increase funding for programs that help address domestic and family violence as well as funding to train professionals and law enforcement officials who may come into contact with abuse cases. [Council on Criminal Justice study shows that DV reports to police increased 8% after lockdown orders were put in place] This could also help the legal process and courts that handle domestic violence cases.
If the United States is truly interested in the safety of its women, it should become party to CEDAW, the Convention on the Elimination of all Forms of Discrimination Against Women. As of right now, 189 states are party to CEDAW. The US has gone as far as to create a National Action Plan and Women Peace and Security framework, but is one of only 6 UN states that has not signed the CEDAW treaty.
There needs to be a push among local and state governments as well as the federal government for more paid safe leave laws such as those instituted within New York City. New York City’s Paid Sick Leave Law, which was originally passed in 2014 and amended in 2018 to include safe leave, allows employees to take leave to take care for themselves or a loved one and seek assistance and safety measures in the event that they are experiencing domestic violence. Facilitating a greater prevalence of paid safe leave for individuals across the country would help to ensure that those suffering from domestic violence are better able to obtain the medical, legal, etc. care that they need without facing the threat of the loss of one’s job and potential unemployment.
If you or someone you know is suffering from domestic violence, please reach out to one of the following resources:
Local
Project Safe Inc. - Athens, GA
Hotline: 706-543-3331
https://www.domesticshelters.org/help/ga/athens/30604/project-safe-inc
State
Georgia Coalition Against Domestic Violence (GCADV)
Hotline: 1.800.334.2836
https://gcadv.org/projects-and-initiatives/statewide-domestic-violence-hotline/
National
National Domestic Violence Hotline
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