Creating a Positive Teacher-Student Relationship Online

Adapted from The Distance Learning Playbook Grades K-12 by Fisher, Frey, Hattie


People learn best when they have a positive relationship with the instructor. Thinking through how you will build relationships will help in making both virtual and face to face instruction positive.

  • Greet each student by name when they enter the virtual classroom

  • Use the students' names during the session for reasons other than to correct.

  • Ask the students personal questions.

  • Pay compliments to the students.


Ensure that students feel included in the discussion and there is a purpose for them to be engaged in the learning:

  • Have a system for calling on students and noticing who hasn’t participated

  • Make sure every live session includes whole group and small group discussions

    • Limit your lecture time by recording asynchronous experiences and increase the opportunities for discussion when you are together.

    • Try these ideas for 5 minute chats

  • If you assign discussion boards, actively participate in them.

  • Use “pop-up” pedagogy throughout the week with content. These might include:

    • Send messages via the LMS with greetings, motivational quotes, intriguing questions that link to new learning, etc..”

    • Post photos of students and their assignments on your LMS.

    • Craft an email newsletter each week explaining what their children did the past week and what they will be doing in the coming week.

    • Personalize directions for assignments by making a short video rather than only providing written directions.

    • Use voice recording feedback on students’ assignments. Don’t forget to use their names!