Waiting During Mealtime

Acknowledge your child’s efforts to communicate before asking them to wait for food:

“Thanks for signing more!” or “It looks like you want potatoes!” Then countdown: “Wait for those potatoes to 5 – 4 – 3 – 2 – 1…plop!”

• Incorporate a waiting song between a request and fulfillment of that request:

Ben is waiting, Ben is waiting, for a cookie, for a cookie! Nice waiting. Here you go.”

• Consider alternating your attention between your meal and your child during waiting time.

--Share a finger play.

--Sing a nursery rhyme.

--Give verbal praise for waiting.

• Offer your child a favorite board book as they wait for the family to finish dinner.