Some Tips for your own safety
Have a second email address for kink, separate and unlinked to your real life email and social media accounts.
Never trust anything or anyone online.
If it is too good to be true, it is too good to be true.
Do your research on what you are looking for.
Find out about the local community.
Understand what is acceptable behaviour.
Never negotiate from a submissive headspace.
Never do anything against your will, just to make someone happy.
Learn how to say NO.
Go with your gut feeling.
First Meeting Safety
The Kinksters Guide to Negotiating a BDSM Scene
Touch of Flavor
How to be a Better Dominant
Evie Lupine discussing the reality of choosing a Dom.