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One of the most common questions we are asked, is what do we wear?
Vanilla clothing is normal everyday streetwear that does not appear overtly sexual or kinky to the general public.
Some clothing, fabrics or clothing accessories may code as kink within the scene (eg D/s tokens) but what matters is whether they visibly signal fetish, sexual or power dynamics to those on the outside. Subtle is good, if in doubt opt for slightly boring :P
The purpose is (within an already alternative community), not to draw undue attention to the wider group, make difficulties for owners of the venues we hire or cause discomfort to to others. This could include families and the general public who may be sharing public spaces.
However we actively encourage your most amazing wardrobe at many kink parties. The following is guidence for different kinds of events:
Munch
Munch
Public Event - Vanilla Clothing Only
Public Event - Vanilla Clothing Only
No Fetish Wear
WORKSHOPS
WORKSHOPS
Public Event - Vanilla Clothing Only
Public Event - Vanilla Clothing Only
No Fetish Wear unless specified in invite
PARTY
PARTY
Invite Only Events - Fetish Clothing
Invite Only Events - Fetish Clothing
No Street Wear - entry will be refused
Acceptable Clothing:
Fetish Clothing
Anything Black
Some events may be Party Themed, this will be listed in the invitation
No street wear
Nudity is acceptable in play areas
Comfortable clothing after play is acceptable (onzies/pjs) are encouraged
Christmas PICNIC
Christmas PICNIC
Public Event - Vanilla Clothing Only
Public Event - Vanilla Clothing Only
No Fetish Wear
SIGS
SIGS
Public Event - Vanilla Clothing Only
Public Event - Vanilla Clothing Only
No Fetish Wear unless specified in invite
ROPE Group
ROPE Group
Public Event - Vanilla Clothing Only
Public Event - Vanilla Clothing Only
No Fetish Wear
Ok, so this is a subject which many have discussed at length, but it boils down to: whatever the hell you like! It’s your body at the end of the day. However, I agree that this is not incredibly helpful to a new initiate. So, please see below for some tips.
Rope is like yoga.
It can get hot and sweaty, and you need to be able to move freely. You also need to be able to not get tangled up in your own clothing.
Rope Bottoms:
Leggings, leotards, LAYERS, yoga shorts, t-shirts with a bit of stretch and fairly close fitting… open-toe tights…. strap tops, sports bras.
Please just be aware that loose fabric can buckle under rope, which is not ideal. Also, that if you were planning on wearing those board shorts that you love but the crotch is almost hitting ‘pengiun’, this is likely to hinder both your movement, and limit your top’s options.
Also bear in mind that it is more difficult to tie on shiny fabric than matte.
Rope Tops:
Joggers, running tops, leggings, sports wear, pajamas.
Please bear in mind that when you get into it “rigger sweats” is a thing. I guarantee that when they come out of the rope they will be chilly and you will be melting. So it’s worthwhile bringing a change of top, particularly in warm weather.
Avoid jeans that don’t stretch, and anything that will affect your mojo i.e. clothes that show sweat marks or sit awkwardly when you’re moving around. If either of those will bother and distract you, that’s less fun you’re going to have.
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