Going to a UB Party for the first time?
A few things to know:
Anyone over the age of 18 years is welcome to join us
Understand Personal Responsibility
Register through Eventbrite
For UB Parties you will have to complete a
A theme or dress requirements are normally listed on the event if in doubt wear black. If you show up in normal clothes, you may be refused entry.
Location is normally sent out by email, just before the event (24 hours)
Some events are priced low and you are asked to bring a plate of food to share
The hosts of a party are not paid and are all volunteers, please be respectful of this
If you are playing, understand about "Drop" for you and your play partner.
24 hours before the Party
Self Service Refunds will end
Ticket Sales end
Three Location Emails are sent out at: 23 hours, 12 hours and 4 hours before the Party
Emails are sent to the details you entered into Eventbrite
What to expect at a UB Party
Arrive and check-in at the door - please bring your Eventbrite QR code either on your phone or printed, so you can be scanned in.
Only registered people and not the public will be allowed into the event
If you have been asked to bring a plate, drop this off in the social area
Find the nominated place to store your play bags and jackets
There will be a safety briefing by the hosts and DM's at the start of the night
Safeword (we use any variation of safeword, or red)
Who the DM's for the night are (DM's decisions are final on any play)
Details of the night's events
You will be shown the social, play and recovery areas.
Some venues may have private play space
Have fun and socialise and get to know people in the social area
If you are watching in the play area, please remember to be quiet
Food and soft drinks will be available throughout the night
You are welcome to watch any play
Excessive use of alcohol, or any drugs are not permitted
If you can, help with the pack down at the end of the night, you will make more friends
What happens at a party, stays at a party
No mobile phones out in the play area
Types of play & Triggers
At a Party there can be many types of play, some you may not want to see.
If a scene is not to YOUR liking, take personal responsibility and move to another area.
Nobody will ever require you to watch, or take part in something that you dislike.
Drop & Aftercare
If you are a top or bottom, you may suffer from "drop", be ready for this!
Drop (sometimes called sub drop, dom drop and "The Mondays") is an experience with similar characteristics of depression that occurs after an intense SM scene. It is caused by adrenaline and endorphin crashes after the adrenaline and endorphin spikes that may occur during a scene.