Do you want your man to adore you forever? This is a question that most women ask themselves once in their life.
Every woman wants their man to adore them, love them, and stay with them till their last breath. This is because women tend to fall in love a lot more easily than men. When it comes to emotions men and women are almost equal, but both have their own way in which they fall for the other. Popular opinion is that men and women usually fall or adore each other in the same way, but that's wrong. There are some special traits that can make a man fall for you and help you make your way right into his heart. Here are 10 reason explaining what makes a man adore a woman.
Confidence
There are a number traits that make a man adore a woman and confidence is at the top of the list. Men adore women that are confident women who determined and can make their own decisions in life. Rather than faking it till you make so you can fit into the norms of society today you will find men adore women who are confident in being their true authentic self. Undeniably loving your whole self and accepting your flaws is one of the best ways to make a man adore you. Men are attracted to women who are more sincere towards their inner reality, who are not afraid of what other people think and do not care about fitting into stereotypes. Men adore women who are their true self, not afraid to show their achievements or to express their true emotions.
So, ladies if you want your man to adore you just be yourself, your confident self that is what will make him fall for you. Don’t be shy to let him know what your talents are, of course whilst remaining humble. For example, if you're an extraordinary cook, welcome him over for dinner and showcase your skills, this is all part of being a confident woman. Confidence is key and helps to show a man what a decent catch you are! This is how to get him to want you!
Alluring Smile
Believe me, a smile is more often a woman’s best feature and is what attracts men to women. Men love women who have a shinning bright smile and a positive upbeat attitude to life. A natural smile can give a woman a beautiful glow and generally, speaking, who in the world does not like a beautiful smile? The same goes for men as well. Men will always adore your smiling face and the way it compliments your beauty. You will find, once you reveal your smile a man will go out of his way to make you smile more and more. This is one of the easiest ways for a woman to attract a man and start to make him fall for her it is what makes a woman intriguing to a man.
Uniqueness
We are all aware of the pressures that society can place on women in today’s world. Some women feel like they have keep up with the latest trends and they find themselves going over and beyond to do so. This often results in women losing themselves and their sense of personal identity. This does not have to be you. You should remember you are a unique and special woman who will compliment the right man.
Men adore the type of women who are rare and hard to come by. Don’t be one of those women who blindly follow every trend thinking this will make them attractive to men. Don't allow him to believe that you are a "run of the mill" woman who couldn't care less about anything aside from keeping up with the trends in society. Show a man that you have layers and a deeper level to you. Men usually adore women who are unique in their own way and show some specialty in every aspect of their lives. Consider that one thing that makes you unique in relation to other women and never be afraid to tap into this to attract your man. Being unique can also be described as special and this feature allows men to gravitate towards you, making you sexy and irresistible, catching and keeping the attention of your man. Quite simply - remember men are not always looking for perfection rather they seek specialty in a woman, the traits that distinguish you from other women.
Intellect
Intellect is one of the key features that will lead you straight into a man’s heart - be his "intelligent lady", the one he wants to talk to about complexed and challenging issues, the one who will understand him and is willing to offer good well informed advice. To play the role of his intelligent lady you should listen and respond: an intelligent woman understands the importance of being an excellent listener. A great listener is always a great respondent, you can only respond accordingly and add value to a conversation if you listen carefully. However, some women struggle to listen to a man and often do not pay attention to the details in a conversation which might offend their love interest or partner…is this you? Remember to be attentive in conversations listen carefully and respond accordingly, show your man you are willing to give him your full attention when having conversations. This essentially shows him that you want to spend time with him, making him feel special and valued, which eventually makes him emotionally strong. When a man starts feeling special and worthy, he will trust and dedicate himself to you.
Take his feelings into consideration: men often respond negatively to emotional attacks, especially when it is done by their beloved woman. Therefore, it is important to express your appreciation towards your man’s feelings. A man will fall head over heels when they find a woman who truly understands them and their feelings. Especially when that woman makes them feel special and valued in every manner. An intelligent woman understands how important it is to show their man they consider his feelings and understand them which makes their man adore and treasure them. Always remember men like to be understood and accepted and if you are a woman who can do this your man will fall for you and adore you. Popular opinion has said a woman cannot change a man; the change comes within them. So do not try to change a man. An intelligent woman understands this and knows that trying to change their man will only lead to a failed relationship or romantic connection. If you do have concerns or suggestions it is important you use the right words and tone to discuss them as this will ensure you are taking your man’s feelings into consideration. Pay special heed to your words you use avoid statements like “you should” “you must” and “why did you not”. Instead use softer words to express your thoughts, statement like “I’m sure you can” “have you ever considered” “I wan the best for you, so I think…”. These statements come across much softer and understanding. Your man will feel like you are making a conscious effort to take his feelings into consideration when making suggestions to him and we know an understanding considerate woman is one that is adored by her man.
Honesty
‘Honesty is the best policy’ right? … Men love genuine, candid, and honest women and do not like women who are manipulating. If you are planning to build a real connection with a man sincerity is an absolute necessity. Manipulating women usually end up getting caught, often leading to them losing their credibility in a relationship and in the worst case they end up losing their man for good. Being manipulative in a relationship usually damages both parties, causes arguments and distrust; no man will allow a woman to destroy him even if she is the women who he loves. A man needs to feel like he can confide in you, you are reliable and honest, or he is never going to be pulled in to you.
Always be honest as this keeps your life simple, you do not need to act out of character or be manipulative to grasp the attention of your man. If you want a man to fall head over heels in love for you, you must be 100 percent honest with him from the beginning and at the earliest reference point of the relationship. Quite simply - The more honest, transparent, and simple you are in life the more he will adore you.
Humour
Every woman knows that men usually like living life at their own a life at their own pace and rarely respond to women trying to disrupt this. Somehow, when a man’s inner or outer peace is disturbed this may cause them to be greatly disturbed which will eventually negatively affect your relationship. So, an excellent tactic to make a man adore you is to keep things light and maintain peace. Try not to suffocate your man, have faith in his judgement and life decisions allowing him to live life at his own pace. This does not mean he is not interested in you, or you are not important to him because a man that loves and cares for you will include you and seek your view on his plans and important decisions. The best approach is to be keep things light and enjoy your relationship. Learn to love, live, and laugh. Humor helps to keep a relationship light and fun. If you can make him laugh, then he will adore you.
Kindness
Always remember, it’s the simple things that tend to mean a lot in a relationship. Send your man spontaneous messages to let him know you're thinking about him or send him an unexpected welcome card via post to do the same. This is how you make a guy call or text you everyday. Leave a sweet note under his windshield wipers or put a post-it note on his work area. There are various ways to show a man that you are interested, love, or thinking of him, and they say actions speak louder than words. It pays to be a selfless, kind, loving woman as this is what will make your man adore you. Indeed, it’s the simple things that can mean a lot to man, encouraging him, praising him, words of affirmation can go a long way. Small selfless actions consistently go far and will for sure make a man fall head over heels in love for you, you can bet he will definitely notice and treasure these things!
Conclusion
Out of all the topics discussed, you always must start from where you are best. For this, start with your looks, your personality, make yourself presentable and attractive enough to catch the attention of your man. It is easy to fall into the trap of thinking that a sexy figure, designer clothes, the latest hairstyle and expensive bags or beautiful shoes make a man adore you, but it is so much deeper than this. For example, you need to be confident in your being, flaws, and all and make your appearance represent your real self – don’t just follow fashion because everyone else is.
Many women believe sex is the one and only thing men really want and you can instantly get attached to a man by jumping into bed with, but that is totally wrong. Not every man is looking for sex you must work more and give more to make your man adore you. A relationship is very much give and take. First, you must give then you will be able to receive your desired outcome. A man is attracted to the woman who he loves to be with, the woman who understands him, makes him laugh, and is sincere in her intentions towards him. This is what makes a woman memorable and makes a man fall for you.
Stop and ask yourself: are you spending enough time with him? is your time with him fun? does he enjoy your company? do you make him laugh? The answer to all the questions lies in your behavior towards your man. The way you behave and interact with him is the most important thing. Remember to make him laugh because it is human nature to feel a connection with the person that makes you smile. Ever had a day where your man just comes to your mind, you start feeling warm inside and a gentle smile spreads on your face? This is also the same for men, when you make him laugh, he too will remember you and feel warm inside, then you are well on your way to making him adore you.
A man is usually fascinated by the whole package, not just the personality, smile, etc. rather he may adore you on the basis of your whole existence and the way he feels around you, the way he gets caught by the charm of you being yourself. Be available but not desperate: I know when a woman falls in love they will yearn for the man’s time and love. However, it is important to note high value productive men are usually busy tending to their lives and taking the necessary steps to achieve their goals and ambitions. A woman also should have a personal life, friends, and hobbies. At some point both parties should be able to enjoy their own space without anyone's disturbance. So, learn to spend some time alone as well as spending time together.
Remember to pay attention to the friends and interests that you used to do dedicate time to before pursuing a love interest or getting into a relationship. Men don’t like clingy women, they are attracted to women who are comfortable in their own company. Also, spending time apart can help to improve the quality of your relationship as spending time alone or with friends or family will let you have more topics to discuss and spend a great time laughing about, you can enjoying each other’s perspective in life. Whilst spending time apart be available to engage in new activities and experiences with your man, getting the balance right is key. A man is always trying to find out new things about his surroundings and when it comes to relationships a man will always try to peel away a woman’s layers getting to know her one layer at a time. Let a man discover you one moment at a time, as he learns more, he will begin to fall for you.
Make a man feel valued and appreciated: A man likes to feel wanted, and this can be a hard pill to swallow for those women who have been single for a significant time in their life because they have become accustomed to living their own life and only having to consider their own feelings. A man likes to play the role of an ultimate supporter and protector, so making him feel that you need him is important and is one of the key factors that’s make a man adore a woman. However, deep down do not forget that you are an independent woman who can do things their own way without anyone's help the secret is to not show this too often. He will enjoy being your superhero and both of you can enjoy a healthy relationship. If you are having issues with dating or your relationship have a think back to recollect if you considered these tips and acted accordingly. The answer is probably no…perhaps you never thought to praise your man or appreciate his masculinity. It’s not too late to start a fresh… now you have these tips you can step into a new or old relationship with a new perspective. I challenge you to implement these tips with the right man for you and you will be surprised at the magnificent outcomes you may have.
Be patient, it cannot happen overnight, in order for your man to adore you, you will have to invest in the romantic connection or relationship taking these tips into consideration and after sometime you will reach a point where your man will fall for you and adore you. And that is the point where you will be remembered forever and never let go!