Sometimes dating and relationships can be frustrating, especially when a man plays hard to get. Some men can be very difficult to understand in the beginning and it may seem like they are sending mixed signals. Sometimes a woman will wonder if she should text a man first or wait for him to make the first move. All of this can change when you learn these tips on how to make a guy text you every day.
Don't Be Too Available
If you devote all your time to a man, he will end up thinking you are too clingy. Don’t make yourself available at all times. Women should occupy themselves with their own activities and schedule which will make sure they are not always free. Don’t get me wrong, this does not give you the okay to avoid your man or act uninterested. Be busy with your life and don’t respond to messages and calls immediately, this will give your man time to miss you and will make him want to text you. A man will text you more when he feels like you are not too available. He will start asking himself questions like, “why is she not texting me?” “what if she is texting another guy?”. This will make him start texting you every day because he cannot bear to lose you.
Take a Step Back
I know in the beginning when you are building a romantic connection with a man you are excited and eager and want to chat with him all the time. Whilst it is good to be positive and enthusiastic, you have to be careful not to come across as desperate. If you find yourself always starting the conversations over text, take a step back and allow him to come to you. When you take a step back a man will want to text your everyday because he knows if he doesn’t there may be somedays he doesn’t get to speak with you. Also let him know what type of texts you like. Suppose your man messages each morning to wish you a joyful day and you love how this makes you feel in the morning. Don’t be shy, let him know that you love his messages he is likely to keep it up. However, always try to keep the balance right when you are texting, for each couple of texts he sends first, you can also send the first text somedays. This will show a man that you like him and are still very much interested.
Give Him a Reason To Text You
Vague texts can be so boring in a relationship. Give a man a reason to want to text you. There will come a point in a relationship when a woman will know her man’s interest and hobbies. At this point, you can post a picture or share something online that will catch your man’s attention. He will be prompted to talk to you about it. Therefore, try to devise a way of making him want to text you by sparking a conversation using topics he can relate to or topics you know he is interested in. Don’t send long story telling texts, who likes to read texts that go on and on? Also, updates like you just ate, your colleague fell ill now you have to work a double shift etc. are very boring texts. What will a man do with this information?
Does He Like Texting?
Some men just do not like texting, PERIOD! These are the ones that like to spend hours on phone or prefer to meet in person and go on dates where they can talk to you in person. If a man is like this, he might only text you once in a while. This is why it is important to find out first if a man likes texting. When you are dating a man that does not like texting it can be quite frustrating but there is nothing much you can do about this. It might help to remind him to text you at least once a day when he is free or find alternatives for example, video calls.
Have Fun
A man likes to be in the company of a woman who is fun to be with, and vice versa. Whenever you are with your man, flirt, enjoy yourselves, break out of your comfort zone, and have open conversations. Make sure that you always talk about interesting topics and make jokes. Avoid emotional topics and being too serious. Immediately when you leave, he will start reminiscing about the good times you have had, and he will want to text you. Make your dates and anytime spent together memorable and interesting so that he will want to text you when you part ways. Whenever you meet up with him and have a good time, he will think of you more and want to text you every day. When a man notices that you are interested in him, he will text you to find out what you like about him. By sparking this conversation, you will notice that your man will also want to know more about you and text every day to find out more.
For women who are in long term relationships a good way to keep texting fun is to send your man exciting sexual messages now and then, also know as sexting. This will make a man instantly think of you and get excited to to text you every day.
Know His Circle
If your man has not introduced you to his friends, tell him that you would like to meet them. Any man will be attracted to a woman that is easy going and gets on well with his friends. This is because you are able to to adapt and spend time with him and his friends in a group setting. He will notice that you are interested in getting to know his circle and nothing makes a man happier than a woman who gets along with his friends. This way, when there are any group functions or events your man will want to invite you and will make sure he texts you to come along or to attend together.
Speak Your Mind
Sometimes a man can lose track of time or become so engrossed with his day to day activities or goals that he may genuinely forget to text you. In this case, a woman should freely speak her mind and politely ask her man why he is not texting. Try not to jump to conclusions because you probably do not know his reason for him not texting; he might be busy or very occupied with other things. Just feel free to ask him. He will realize that he is not texting you as much and correct his mistake. Also, if you have something to discus don’t be shy to speak your mind and tell your man that you have something to talk to him about and ask that he text you when he is free. This will get him wondering and he is likely to text you. However, make sure you actually have something to discuss, or else you may come across as manipulative and needy
Play Hard To Get
Some men live for the chase and when there is minimal to no effort required to catch a woman, they can easily and quickly become uninterested. Let’s be honest, the same applies to women. If something is straightforward or easy, it is simply not interesting. A woman is probably less attracted to a man that is excessively available. Women somewhat like the chase too and can be drawn to a man that is, to some degree, a challenge to get. The equivalent goes for men. Make a man chase after you after you. For example, acting shy can be a good tactic to use to inspire a man to send the first text. When a man finds a woman challenging, he will want to text her more to understand what she is thinking and feeling this is what makes a woman intriguing to a man.
Avoid Using Too Many Emojis and Abbreviations
When it comes to emojis and abbreviations, getting the balance right is crucial. Test this out by sending a few texts including them and assess the response you receive. If your man replies in a similar fashion then you know you can use smileys and abbreviations in future texts. However, if your man responds in full sentences, correct punctuation and no abbreviations maybe it would be wise to avoid using emojis and abbreviations. Quite simply - there are plenty of men who think these things are immature and childish. It would be a unfortunate for a woman to pass up an incredible chat with a man due to something like this – something that can easily be avoided. That is why in the initial phases of getting to know your man it is best to tone down on the smileys and abbreviations to make sure you don’t give off the wrong impression and your man texts you everyday.
Compliments
Every man loves it when a woman strokes their ego and one of the best ways to caress a man’s ego is to compliment him. When you make an effort to pay a man compliments he will surely text every day because he will enjoy speaking with you and reading the compliments. This is a good tactic to use to make a man text you everyday because studies have shown that men are not accustomed to receiving compliments; instead men are used to having to pay women compliments. Quite simply - you paying your man compliments would be received particularly well and he will associate that good feeling to you every time he thinks about it. There are many ways a woman can pay a man a compliment over a text for example, if your man posts a new photo on social media you can send a text complimenting the photo.
Be Happy and Comfortable When Texting
As a woman, you likely have some experience using flirting techniques with a man in person and these techniques have worked admirably for you in the past. All that works, in actuality, likewise works when you are apart and texting a man. Don’t be a completely different woman over text be comfortable, happy and be your natural self. Even if you or your man do not like texting try and have a positive attitude when texting because you’re feelings can easily be translated to your man over text, in the words and phrases you use. When your are positive and lighten up your man’s day he will look forward to texting you everyday. Remember this isn’t something you can fake; it must be real.
Delay Your Responses
Delaying your responses to texts can be a perfect way to get a man to text you. At the point when you are having conversation over text with your man, do you generally respond quickly? Why don’t you try and delay your responses to keep your man waiting, that way he will be eager for you to respond and crave your attention more. Some may argue, this is game paying and doesn’t take a man’s feelings into consideration but its just how the rules of dating and relationships are set up. So, head over to your texts and put that conversation on do not disturb. This way, the texts will come through; however, you won’t receive an instant notification; you will only see the texts when your actively go and check your phone. Rather than using do not disturb or night mode another tactic is to try and not be by your phone 24/7. For example, if you are at home doing chores, cooking etc. maybe leave your phone in another room. Also, when you are out you could keep your phone on silent mode, put it away in your handbag, so you are not enticed to continuously check it. Your man will realize you have taken long to reply, and he will text you again and again to get a response.
Make Him Feel Comfortable
Somebody who feels apprehensive or tense around you won’t want to text you everyday. If in person your conversation with a man is quite awkward or seeming like a chore, why would he want to text you everyday? If you want to get those daily texts, you will need to you’re your man feel comfortable and at ease. Make sure there is a good rapport between you and focus on building a strong companionship first. When a man feels like he has this type of association and relationship with a woman, he will feel much more comfortable to text her everyday. Your strong bond and companionship means you will enjoy speaking with you’re man and have lots to discuss, there is no way he will not want to text you everyday.
Be Bold
In some cases, getting a man to message you initially requires a little courage on your part. If you are burnt out on sneaking around your emotions without any outcomes, take a leap of faith and step out of your comfort zone – be bold. Make the first move and introduce yourself to him and ask to exchange numbers or social media and send him, the first text. This may be daunting however, it will let you know where you stand with a man. If the conversations flows and you are exchanging texts back and forth, use this as your opportunity to build a strong companionship which will make him want to text you everyday.
Never Text ‘Hi'
The ‘hi’ text is by a long shot the laziest choice with regards to messaging. Indeed, you’re simply attempting to nudge him to check whether he is around and wants to message; however, there are many more imaginative approaches to catch a man’s attention and stand out amongst other women. Here are a couple of alternatives to the traditional ‘Hi’ text. ‘Hello, handsome, how are you?’ and ‘Thinking of you... I am sure you're having a great day today". These alternative examples a) tell a man that you are thinking about him, and b) give your man something to react to leaving him wanting to text you in return. The whole purpose of messaging is to participate in the chat, so remember your objective. Have a more in depth discussion tailored to your desired outcome when texting. Always remember the objective when initiating a discussion via text. Having a reason or objective for every conversation will guarantee it flows well. Are you hoping to make arrangements with him for the evening? Become more acquainted with him on a deeper level? Checking in to tell him he’s on your mind? Have that reason at the forefront of your mind when you text so you can keep the chat on target. Also, this shows you have respect for his time because you are not just aimlessly sending texts to get a response from him. After all, you have no idea what a man is doing when he receives your text, he could be busy at the time and drop what he is doing to respond, so make sure he has something worthwhile to respond to.
Be Inquisitive
Most men love when a woman they are interested asks intelligent questions, questions about their life, hobbies and interests, is there any valid reason why a man would not respond to these type of texts? Posing inquiries about a man’s work, family, leisure activities, or day is an an excellent approach to show a man that you are intrigued by him. This is what attracts men to women. By demonstrating your interest in his life, he will automatically warm to you, he will react in a kind manner and have no reason not to text you everyday.
Remember texting is not only words. You can send a photograph occasionally through texts. It’s okay to send an adorable selfie of yourself once in a while; however you will need to assess whether your man would be comfortable with this! Remember only send images you are comfortable with and never allow a man to pressure you into sending images of any kind. Alternatively, instead of sending images of yourself you can send a photo of something you know will make your man laugh for example, a relatable meme. To keep things interesting you can also ask your man to send you images. For example, suppose he is on a day out with his friends rock climbing, playing football etc. you can request a pic. Asking a man to share photographs is an excellent approach to keep him connected to you and give him the desire to text you everyday.
Most Importantly… Do Not Vent
When you spend many hours of your life with with a man you begin to feel at ease with him. This means that you both will start to open up more. However, you should remember not to text your man continuously to complain and vent. A woman, should bring positivity to a man’s life and give him peace of mind. Complaining, moaning and grumbling is the complete opposite and will not make a man want to text you everyday.
In summary, texting can be an exciting way to get to know and understand a man you are dating. It can also be a good way to keep a relationship interesting. However, it is important a woman pay’s attention to how a man communicates via text and responds accordingly to make sure a man doesn’t lose interest. Quite simply – try and select a few of these tips and implement them when you are texting your man. You may be shocked at your positive results and the change you see in your man as he becomes more engaged with texting and starts texting you everyday.