Love is a beautiful feeling that everyone has felt at one point in his or her life. Parental, sibling and friendship love are all examples of love that everyone has felt in their lives. However, when it comes to a man falling in love, there are certain things that he must have noticed, or must have been captivated by to fall in love with a woman. Most of the time, a man will fall in love with a woman without even noticing it. There are millions of women all over the world, but for a man to specifically fall in love with one woman, it means that there is something special about the woman. It can be a combination of things: appearance, character, style, infatuation and how a woman carries herself and many others. Both men and women have different opinions when it comes to falling in love and committing to a relationship. Most women are mistaken, in thinking that it is very easy to make a man fall in love with them. However, the truth is that a man can easily lust after you or seek to enjoy your company, but love is a completely different thing. Below are some insights that will provide better understanding of the male heart and how men fall in love.
1) When They Meet A Woman, Who Is Open to Being in Love
When a man meets a likeminded woman, who is open to the idea of being loved and is ready for a relationship, then he can fall in love with the woman too. The feeling that this woman is going to reciprocate his love is all that a man needs to adequately feel the same about the opposite gender. Therefore, a man feels more confident if he falls in love with a woman who feels the same way about him. It’s all about the chemistry that they have between them.
2) If There Is A Connection Between Him and The Person, He Loves
A man also falls in love if there is a connection between him and the woman he loves. When two people meet for the first time, they will quickly know if there is a magnetic energy between them. You will realize that there are things that you share in common, or places that you would both wish to visit. You can also connect emotionally through the things that you have both experienced in your separate lives, and spiritually because you have the same faith and similar morals and beliefs. A man also falls in love with a woman when he has an emotional attachment with her. If a man clicks with a woman the first time of meeting her, then there are high chances that he will fall in love with this woman. This is what most people refer to as “love at first sight.” Having a deep emotional attachment means that you both share deeper feelings for each other and relate on al levels. This is what makes a man adore a woman and makes both of you become even closer. A man usually feels the need to spend more time with a woman who he shares common things with. Slowly but surely, this man will fall in love with such a woman and will strive to maintain an amazing fulfilling relationship with her.
3) If He Loves the Personality and Character of a Woman, He Is Interested In
The way a woman carries herself says more about her character and personality. How you relate with people around you is very important because it shows a man how you are going to treat the people in his life. For instance, if you are out on a date and are unknowingly rude to the waitress because you subconsciously believe this job is less than, then a man may lose interest in you. This is because he now knows that you judge people based on what they do for a living and your respect for an individual is based on their profession and career choice. This may give a man the wrong impression in that you are only with him for specific reasons and not for love, not to mention this is a very shallow outlook on life. Maybe the man is financially stable or holds a prominent position in society that you want to benefit from. However, if you are humble, composed and respect everyone despite of what they do, then a man will respect you, and will want to take the next step and introduce you to his family and friends. Since he loves your personality, he is sure that his family and friends will love it too and that is why he is comfortable taking you to meet those close to him. Having a humble, kind, loving and unique personality can quickly make a man fall in love with you.
4) When He Knows A Woman for Who She Is
Some women pretend to be people who they are not, just to impress a man. However, they forget that there is only so long they can keep up with a façade. It will reach a time when the woman will get tired of trying to impress a man and it is at this point that the man will start to see the real you. On the contrary, if a woman is her genuine self and does not change to impress a man, a man will fall in love with her for whom she really is. Therefore, it is important for a woman to be her true self when starting a relationship with a man. As the relationship progresses, the man will love the woman for who she is, flaws and all.
5) If he loves your Company
When looking for a serious relationship, a man looks for a woman whose company is peaceful and full of fun. This is one of the reasons why men take their time before they finally agree to commit to a woman. They must know and be certain, before they take that big step of commitment. A man falls in love if he loves the company of the woman that he is interested in. If you give out a positive energy, then a man will feel comfortable being in your company and will always create time to be with the one he loves.
6) Meets an Honest and Trustworthy Woman
Honesty and trustworthiness are some of the qualities of a good woman that makes a man fall in love with a woman, this is what makes a woman memorable to a man. When a man meets a woman who is honest, regardless of the situation, and can be trusted with anything, this will catch his attention and he will be drawn to her. He will always feel very comfortable going to his woman for advice because he knows that she is going to be very honest with him. In addition to this, when faced with any difficulties, the man will always trust the woman to make a decision that is for the good for them both, and their family. This makes a man feel comfortable with delegating some duties to his woman, knowing that she will have everything handled well.
7) He Finds Vulnerability in The Woman He Loves
It is very rare to find a man that can be open about everything in their life when they are just starting to date a woman. Men tend to take time and study the woman they are in love with, to determine if she is worth the risk. The moment a man becomes vulnerable with you, the more he loves you. This means that he trusts you enough to let you in his life and share some of his deepest secrets with you. Women should allow men whom they are in love with to be vulnerable with them. When a man feels ready, he will tell you about the things that are bothering him, all his plans and everything that he has in mind. Do not be too fast to comment or judge him at this point because he may regret opening up to you, and this will break his trust.
8) He is Praised and Supported
Although men might not make it obvious, men also want to be supported by the women they love. For instance, if your husband lost his job, and he has been of great help to you while he had his job, then the best thing that you can do for him is to keep assuring him that everything will fall in place,. In addition to this, you can go ahead and start sending him vacancy posts that you come across from different companies as sign of support or pick up some of the bills he may not be able to cover given his current circumstance. This kind of support is what attracts men to women. Although he may not say it, he will feel loved and is aware of the support that you are trying to give him. When he gets the job, he will always remember that if it were not for you, he would have not been where he is currently. Therefore, a man finds it attractive and falls in love with a woman who praises and supports him.
9) Feelings of Appreciation and Acceptance
Women love being appreciated through different ways, but have you ever thought of doing the same for your husband or boyfriend? The same way a woman wants to feel appreciated is the same way that a man wants to feel too. For example, if your boyfriend takes you out every single weekend or even three to four times in a week, then you should strive to reciprocate and organize a night where you take him out. Many women have been led by social media to believe that it is the duty of a man to provide and do all the nice things for a woman. This is has resulted to many women marrying or seeking to be a committed relationship only for financial stability, and not considering love. Appreciate your man occasionally too as this will make him think about you more often and fall in love with, this how to get him to want you. In addition to this, if you are dating a man who has specific insecurities, then you should aim to make him feel accepted.
10) When He is Taken Care of
Make him feel good and loved by taking care of him. Prepare his meals and wash his clothes. Most women think that it is too much to do such duties for a man because they don’t want to be called a maid etc. however, there should be no problem doing these duties when you do them out of love. These qualities in a woman is what makes a man adore a woman. If you want to take care of your man, then do it without getting a second opinion. A good man, who is ready to start his life with you, will appreciate the efforts and this will make him love you even more.
11) If You Assure Him That He Makes You Happy
It is natural for men to put in effort in a relationship and most of the time; they are always the initiators of a relationship. When dating a woman, a man will want to do his best to make sure that his girlfriend or wife does not lack anything. He will go out of his way to ensure that both of you live a very comfortable life together. However, one mistake that most ladies make is that they take these gestures as something normal and they fail to appreciate the efforts that their men are putting in. if you ensure that your man knows that he makes you happy, then he will never stop loving you. You can do this by appreciating the little things that he is doing for you, with words of affirmation. Once he feels this positive energy, he will never stop doing well by you, and will always put you first in everything that he does. For instance, if he is invited somewhere, he will be keen to have his partner accompany him because of how appreciative he is. His interest in you will keep growing every single day.
12) Being Inspired By The Woman He Loves
A man may feel like he is not getting things done because he is going through some emotional or mental issues that he needs to handle to clear his mind. If you are the lucky woman who is spending her life with the man of your choice, then you should be an inspiration to your man and keep reminding him that he is amazing. Through this, he will understand that he needs to have clear thinking to be the best version of himself. Talk to your man and keep reminding him how it is okay to take a break when he feels to, so that he can clear his mind and get back to work and being the best version of himself.
13) If He Is Given Space to Live Achieve His Personal Goals
Men do not like hanging out or dating women who keep nagging them. They feel as though they are trapped, and they cannot get out of the situation. On the contrary, if you give a man his own space, and allow him to meditate about his life, he will appreciate this space and will always love being around you because of how peaceful you are. Also, allow a man to achieve his own personal goals as you also achieve yours and remember set the goals you want to achieve together.
14) Meets a Woman Who Meets His Standards
A man may date many women, but the truth is that he always knows the kind of woman that he wants to settle down with. Sometimes, you will notice that men will marry women who are the opposite of the girls they used to date before. A man falls in love when he meets a woman who meets his standards. This is always an assurance that his future is safe, and he trusts this woman enough, to let her in fully as part of his family and start his own family with her. Therefore, a woman will know it if a man loves her from how he treats her, both in public and in private.
15) Physical Appearance
A woman’s physical appearance is the first thing that any man will notice. Is she curvy? Is she petite? Does she work out? All the answers to these questions are found by looking at a woman’s physique. There are men who fall in love with how a woman looks from the outside. This is mainly because the woman is the kind of woman that they have always dreamed of being with. Although this is another reason as to how a man falls in love, it never lasts for long if this is the only reason because one slight change in a woman’s body makes a man lose interest in her.
16) When He Meets a Woman, Who Appreciates and Embraces Her Femininity
A man falls in love with a woman who appreciates and embraces her femininity. If you like wearing high heeled shoes because they make you feel comfortable and you feel good about yourself then you should keep doing feminine things like this, as this is what men find irresistible. Self-love is one of the qualities that attract a man to a woman, when you love yourself, you will attract the same energy, and you will find a man who will has exactly the same feelings.
17) Independency
Naturally, a man will fall in love with an independent woman. Having the ability to take care of yourself is an assurance to any man that you can handle things on your own in case he is not around. This is usually a sign of security and lifts the burden of one person talking full responsibility of the house.
18) He Sees a Future In a Woman Of His Choice
Men can date as many women as possible, but regardless of how long they date, if he does not see you in his future then you will end up parting ways. A man knows what he wants and if you are the woman, he wants to spend the rest of his life with, then he will do anything and everything to make that happen.
In summary, all the above are just some of the ways through which a man falls in love. How a woman portrays herself and the attitude that she has towards life in general attracts a man and can make him fall in love. Ultimately, men fall in love when they meet the right woman who motivates them to be the best version of themselves and makes them want to live a happy fulfilled life together.