A traditional approach to discipline often involved time-outs where children would be sent to their rooms or separated from others, including their parental figures. This sends mixed messages and teaches children that love is conditional upon good behaviour, which may actually increase unwanted behaviours. Instead, use a 'Time-In' approach where you and the child spend time together. Use the time to work through the situation and their feelings and emotions, solidifying that your love is unconditional.

This acronym serves as a reminder that mistakes are a natural and necessary part of learning. Children should be reminded that it is important not to allow mistakes to define them and it is how they choose to learn from their mistakes that is important.

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Positive-self talk is not something that often comes naturally to children, particularly those who may have experienced trauma or an unstable environment. Using positive affirmations daily, allows children to train their brains to think positively and has a number of benefits including learning to cope with stress, attitude improvements and increased self-confidence.

You may print this poster and hang it in the child's bedroom or have them repeat a selection of affirmations each morning to begin their day with a positive state of mind.

Use this tool as reminder of why it is important to continue to use positive-discipline techniques rather than punishments.

This is a tool I have personally introduced to children I have worked with in the past and I have found it to be very useful.

Use this tool to shift the focus in behaviour management from a negative approach to a positive one. Focusing on what a child does well allows you to empower and motivate the child using a strengths-based approach.

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Dr. Wayne Hammond - Clinical Psychologist

In this video presentation, Dr. Hammond emphasizes the importance of a strengths-based parenting approach. Use this tool to understand the benefits of positive parenting and how it may benefit children in your care.