SOCIAL HEALTH

MAKING THE MINDSET FROM "ME TO WE"

"TOGATHER WE FLOURISH ,

ALONE WE MAY PARISH"

ADJUSTMENT PROBLEMS & CONFLICT MANAGEMENT .
SOCIAL CLASHES AND SOCIAL REBELLION
RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS IN ADOLESCENTS AND ADULTS
MARITAL HARMONY AND MANAGING MIDDLE LIFE CRISIS.
INTERPERSONAL BONDING AMONGST FAMILY ( WITH CHILDREN &PARENTS)
BEHAVIOURAL PROBLEMS OF CHILDREN AND ADOLESCENTS
ACADEMIC PERFORMANCE OF STUDENTS.
ACADEMIC AND BEHAVIOURAL ISSUES OF MEDICAL STUDENTS .
PARENTAL GUIDENCE AND COUNSELING.

SOCIAL HEALTH

It is the innate desire and necessity to stay connected to self and surroundings.
the social instinct developed in us as a part of survival measure initially ,later on the intellectual, cultural ,geographic and economic development of human race also emerged due to same instinct.
the smallest social unit is a family ,the various social groups like tribes ,cults, societies ,cultures and countries are just the evolution of this units in regards to various purposes.
just as the body cells group up to form tissues and organs with particular functions ,the harmonious bonding and belonging of people to a particular social or professional group does serve a big purpose.
social intelligence is the ability to connect and interact with the people and the society around in a healthy and harmonious way. Also the ability to negotiate with the social situations in relationships , family ,social/professional groups and the society by and large.
a good social health is essential for good mental and professional health.
socialization or domestication has led to more taming behavior and increased creativity
common social health concerns :
Interpersonal relationships in the family and the society
Marital harmony
Healthy and effective parenting,
handling elderly in family.
handling adolescent and children in family.
managing conflicts and relationship disharmony.
managing social rebellion and disruptive behavior.

Conflict Management:

the conflict starts with a disagreement and continues with an obsession to prove it is correct.

in a conflict the right and wrong are relative -its the fight to emphasize ones own perception to be more correct.

Dr Albert Einstein rightly stated the truth is relative and subjective.

one may say the Sun rises in the East, other may say the earth rotating over its axis- they express different dimension of perception.

POSITIVE & EFFECTIVE PARENTING

Be a positive role model for your child

children don't listen -they follow the parents.

It is the parental anxiety that hampers more -the ability and confidence of their child.

Your children can do better -if as parents you get down from their shoulders.

Don't try to shape future of your child ,the nature will do it better-just learn to care for them.

Nature is busy creating future humans -don't influence them too much by your own Past.

MARITAL HARMONY

Marriage is like a dipole(opposite magnetism) , each one is essential for the function of other ,and a harmonious relationship.
Marital harmony has a great impact on Health of the family, provided each one becomes the others strength.
A female has a capacity to bind ,and the man has the capacity to hold on the relationship.
Forgetting should be the quality of female and forgiving should be the nature of the man.
Knowing is not enough ,understanding and accepting makes a great relationship.
It depends on how much you can give rather than take from the relationship.
In a relationship it is expected to prove the other is right, rather than our own self.
You win in a relationship more -by loosing yourself to it.
people may come together due to emotion --but to stay connected due to devotion.
marriage is like a "saadhana" (meditation) ,many obstacles come ,but you need to stick to it ,and it works

Most of the people keep waiting to be understood ,whereas a good relationship depends on understanding how the other feels about your behavior.

A marital relationship passes through the stages of attraction , co-operation ,competition ,aversion and rebellion ,the cycle repeats it self.

it is necessary to understand the principals of human behavior.

Training the mind to pass through certain experiences and re analyzing them brings the desirable behavior change and Harmony.

RELATIONSHIP

The most complex issue of life ,most explored still most confusing .

the feeling of love, the meaning of love and fulfilling of love happen at different stages of life.

a spark of emotion that is just a short lived needs to be converted to a never ending journey of commitment ,determination ,acceptance and adaptation .

There are physiological ,psychological ,social and spiritual aspects of the relationship ,when it is lived with justification of all this aspects ,that the happiness emerges out of it .

The chemistry of brain ,the drive of emotions , the irresistible desire , the flight of ideas and the bold expressions. defines something as the feeling of love

Its actually a programmed biology ,that triggers the physical ,emotional and chemical changes in body ,for a limited duration.

The information processing by brain is at its height , and explosion of emotions creating a super faith and confidence ,to handle any difficulties to make it together.

The most challenging part of relationship begins after the purpose of nature is served.

In a programmed manner the behavior of the two people is going to evolve to form a couple and a family

The need of expansion of psychological Ego boundaries from "ME to WE", with a need to metamorphose in to a new individual with ever increasing patience and emotional resilience.

So getting in to love is not a miracle or magic ,but living a fulfilling life thereafter is the real magic, if the mind is programmed and groomed for the holistic happiness.