Is Your Child Unhappy at School?

What to Do If Your Child Is Unhappy at School

If your child is unhappy at school, it’s important to listen, find the problem, and get help.

• Talk to your child: Ask what’s wrong and listen carefully.

• Give them space to talk: Ask open-ended questions like, "How are things going at school?" and listen without judgment.

• Check for bigger issues: Counselors or therapists can give your child extra support if he or she is feeling hopeless, angry, or withdrawn, 

• Ask about school: Find out if the problem is with schoolwork, friends, or something else.

• Encourage them: Let them know you understand and want to help.

• Talk to the teacher: Ask if they notice any problems in class.

• Contact the school counselor: They can help with school struggles, emotions, or friendships.

• Check for bullying: Ask if someone is being unkind to them. If so, report it to the school.

• Find support: If your child is struggling with learning or emotions, the school can help.

If your child is older, they can talk to a trusted teacher or their counselor and ask for help.