Every family comes from a different background. When you share about your culture with school staff, they can better help your child. Schools want to respect your family's traditions, beliefs, and needs.
Ways to Help School Staff Understand Your Culture:
Talk to the teacher or counselor: Let them know about traditions, holidays, or religious practices that might affect your child at school. Example: "In our culture, family is very important. We may need to take time off for family events." Be respectful of the school's culture, too!
Talk about expectations:
School expectations might be different from those in your home country.
Explain your expectations for your child's education.
Example: "In my country, teachers are very strict. I want to know how discipline works here."
Share important customs: Tell teachers about your family's special customs. For example, if your child has certain ways to greet others, wears special clothes, or doesn't eat at certain times for religious reasons, let the teachers know.
Explain Communication Styles:
In some cultures, it's considered disrespectful to look an adult directly in the eye.
Explain how you show respect in your culture.
Example: "In my culture, we show respect by listening quietly and nodding.”
Ask about holidays and activities: Tell the school if your child will miss school for religious holidays. Let them know ahead of time why your child won't be in class on those days.
Respect differences: You want the school to understand your culture. Encourage your child to learn about other cultures, too.
Ask for understanding: Talk to school staff if a school rule goes against your family's beliefs. They can help find a way that works for everyone.
Explain dietary restrictions: Tell the school if your child cannot eat certain foods because of your religion or culture. Let the school nurse or lunch workers know about these food rules.
Why This Matters:
It helps teachers understand your child's behavior.
It creates a more welcoming and inclusive school environment.
It helps prevent misunderstandings.
It helps your child feel seen and valued.