Please no gifts, really!
We have two households worth of life's things and don't need more. We know that you will be incurring travel costs, lodging costs, et cetera and want to enjoy your company more than your offers of stuff. Ticket costs go towards offsetting our costs for this celebration which is a gift in and of itself.
If you absolutely must - we are always happy for you to donate to any of our favorite charities:
The Trevor Project (no, not that Trevor)
Again, your presence is a gift in and of itself to us.