DO NOT!

• Ignore or dismiss the issue

• Act shocked or embarrassed

• Panic, preach, or judge

• Tell them not to feel that way

• Challenge, debate, or bargain

• Give harmful advice (i.e. using alcohol or drugs to “feel better”)

• Promise to keep the secret

DO!

• Listen and show you care

• Ask if they are thinking about suicide

• Stay with them until you can get them to an adult

• Go to a trusted adult (Parent, Teacher, Mental Health Team Member, etc.)

• Continue to show empathy and care