Dear Year 7 Student, 

I am writing this letter hoping that you could help me with a situation I have been going through. Some months ago, I had a fight with a friend of mine and it happened to spread us apart. However, I am trying to rebuild our friendship again, even though people told me it was not a good idea. 

This month I have tried various ways to gain his friendship again, but he still pushes me off and I respect how he feels, but I can't throw away all the experiences I had with him. I am afraid that if I let him go or wait for him to take his time, he would not be my friend anymore. Please help me!

Thank you,

Year 9 student

Dear Y9 student,

I know that you are having problems with your friends . I am helping you and you will overcome this. You are afraid of letting your friend have his time and then after he won't be your friend anymore. You could try to let your friend have his time because he will think about what happened. 

I understand your problem. You are afraid of losing your good old friend. I know that you like this person a lot and you will feel very sad and bad if he stops talking with you. I recommend for you to let the person have his time because it is essential for a person to have their time to think about what is happening. If you let the person have their time to think about what happened in the fight , the conversation is be calmer and it increases their her chance to forgive you.  I recommend you to try to call the coordinator because the coordinator could help you by giving the phone number of a therapist and this can help you to solve your problem. 

If I were in your place, I would not ask a lot for forgivenessof sorry and explain why you are sorry many times. This is related to the first advice I gave you,  because sometimes people need to think about what is happening. Probably the person will understand and apologise to you because he will be saying things by heart and not for impulse. If this doesn’t work you are having a serious conversation with the person saying sorry and saying the reasons why you are sorry.if you didn't say sorry, your problem would not be solved

You need to understand that your problem can be resolved in little parts and is not impossible to be resolved.How about being calm and after that you talk with your friend?. Being calm is essential because the person is mad at you and if you say something rude.

Respectfully,

Rafael P.