Forget it and move on
Post date: Apr 5, 2015 8:19:46 PM
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We think our history is what defines us and so we feel regret. In truth however, our history is just a story in our head. When we at last let go regretting how we got here, let go our sadness and anger about the past, then we can see where we are today. Regret is a story we choose to believe. The truth is right before us: we are here now. Where do we want to be tomorrow? Find a path to it and start walking.
Do not believe in punishment, especially your own. Self pity and regret are illusion that if we make ourselves suffer enough, we can change the past. We are right here right now and the only thing that matters is our next step.