Traveling a lot, makes most contacts short and volatile (vluchtig). But still a click is important to me in these contacts.
In some places I have the click with the people and/or the place. And in others not. And that’s ok! Especially for an introvert who doesn’t mind spending time alone.
But when I meet that place with that special click, it’s fun to go explore my surroundings.
And sometimes those contacts turn into a friendship after spending time together. But that is mostly rare and that’s ok too. Because the now moment of having fun together is what counts and nothing else.
It also means that sometimes out growing each other happens and I have to say goodbye. It is important to be sometimes even bold in saying goodbye. The memories are there, but the future not.