10 most common traits of an “intimidating “ person
1. Your word is good!
Honesty is something you value big time. If you say you will do something you
always follow through.
2. You are straightforward!
You always speak your mind and do not care who gets upset.
3. You are opened minded!
You are open to new ideas and always willing to try new things. This allows you
to achieve success through any opportunities that you are willing to take
4. You create solutions
You focus more on the solution then the problem. You don’t make excuses you just
get things done as you should.
5. You are strong-willed
You are focused and will go to extra lengths to make something happen.
6. You do not like people that complain!
Complaining is something that makes you mad, you would rather work alone then with
someone who spends the whole day complaining. You don’t have time for their shit
and will not pick up their extra weight without letting them know where they can shove
their complaints.
7. You do not tolerate willful ignorance!
You are open minded, yes, but you will not entertain anyone that is judgmental. You
will either walk away from them and their ignorance or lose your patience with them
and let them have a piece of your mind.
8. You are Wise!
You are always learning new things and new ways of thinking. You think things through
and never waste time. You are wise beyond your years.
9. You do not like small talk!
To you, small talk can be a bit annoying. You do not take the time to deal with it often
and would rather be sitting alone. You only want to partake in conversations with
meaning. If someone cannot have a real, deep and meaningful conversation with you
then most likely they do not converse with you at all
10. You are kind!
You are one of the nicest people in the world, really. People are quick to judge you because
you do not waste your time and often see success. It seems people love to judge those who
are doing better then them and this is one of those circumstances.
Note For years I wondered why people inside and outside of my business felt I was "intimidating".
I found this article in an obscure place on the internet explaining someone's explanation of an "intimidating" person!
So there are a lot of us, as "leaders", at times we feel intimidating! These 10 points made me feel great for the most part.
So if the shoe fits, feel better you really are a good and kind person!!!