Here's a big resource for dealing with FtM or transmasculine dysphoria and how to pass (if that's what you want). Not all trans people want to pass, but here are some tips and guidelines for those who do.
Many transmasculine people will bind their chests to make their breasts appear smaller. This can dramatically decrease chest dysphoria however it can be very dangerous if done incorrectly or with incorrect materials and may even lead to damaged ribs or make it harder or impossible to get top surgery (removal of breasts).
There are two different types of chest binders, each with pros and cons
These come down to just above your waist.
Pros:
Cooler
Doesn't roll up
Usually cheaper
Cons:
May induce dysporia due to bra like shape
Cannot be worn by itself (ie. with nothing over top)
These come down to your hips, like a shirt.
Pros:
Can be worn as a normal tank top
Some say it's more comfortable
Cons:
It rolls up
Usually more expensive
Hotter
DO NOT:
Bind with anything that is not from an official trans binder store. This includes cheap ones off amazon and wish.
Bind with anything that is not meant for binding (ie. bandages or duct tape). This WILL hurt your ribs.
Bind for over 8 hours
Exercise in your binder - try wearing a sports bra instead
Wear a binder while swimming - there are some clip on binders that are made specifically for this but if you don't have one of those DO NOT use a regular binder. This will restrict your ability to breathe and it will be extremely hard to take off while it is wet
Sleep in your binder
Buy a binder that is sized down on purpose
DO:
Make sure you get the right measurements
Take breaks while binding
Make sure to stretch
Drink a lot of water (especially if it is hot weather)
Buy from a Trans specific shop - GC2B are excellent (and have a sizing chart) and Sock Drawer Heroes are an Australian based Trans company (so shipping may be cheaper)
IMPORTANT NOTE - When putting your binder on, make sure your nipples are facing the front and not down or to the side. Failing to do so can cause serious damage.
Stretch your arms above your head then stretch side to side to stretch out your ribs
Cough a few times
Take some slow deep breaths
Make sure to wash your binder regularly so it doesn't start growing things from all the accumulated sweat.
Get a container and fill it with water (can even be the sink)
Lather up the binder with laundry or dish soap then let soak for around 10-15 minutes
Rinse out binder and ang dry it (make sure to get all the soap out before drying
Yes -- This is normal :)
Getting winded after walking quickly/ upstairs with binder on, but able to catch your breath
Chafind in the underarms area
Soreness (suring or after) in arms, shoulders, or back
Mild anxiety about tightness
Chest sagging
No, take it off and rest. See a doctor if the problem gets worse or doesn't go away after taking the binder off (or after one week):
Nausea during or after binding, in cluding nausea caused by pain
Bruising
Out of breath/ can't catch breath when not wearing binder
Skin rash
Sharp pain in ribs
Not able to cough or sneeze
Numbness in arms
Feeling too tires/ sore to do everyday activities
Suddenly having any of the above symptoms even if you've been binding for years
NO, see a doctor ASAP, could be a sign of serious injury :(
Anything from the above category if you can just tell/ feel something is wrong - better safe than sorry
Extreme claustrophobia/ panic attacks
Sharp pain in chest/ heart skipping beats or beating very fast
Not being able to breathe
Dizziness
Blueness in lips or fingertips
Change in shape of ribcage
Fainting
'Packing' refers to creating a bulge in your underwear, often to achieve a more masc look and feel. FTM, trans and transmasculine people often pack in order to curb gender dysphoria or to better express their gender. A 'packer' is a soft realistic penis, often made from silicone or TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) that you use to pack. Packing is a personal decision, and it's not something that every transmasculine person chooses to do. It's totally up to you if it's something that makes you feel good.
STPs are devices that allow people with out penises to stand whilst peeing (STP - Stand To Pee). This can allieviate an enormous amount of dysphoria for transmasculine people. STPs are essentially a funnel with a large area at the top that gets pressed against your genetalia and thus the urethra to collect urine, and a tube that runs through to the other end of the STP where the urine comes out. Some packers have STP funcionality but make sure to double check before you buy if it can be used like this.
Check out the resources below for more information on packers and STPs
Here is a guide to what masculine hairstyles may suit your face. Remember this is just a guide and you can do your hair however you like and however makes you comfortable. When asking for a haircut, make sure the edges in the back are squared not rounded.
Hum at a normal level for your voice
Keep humming and tip your head back to look up
Num bring your head down and lower your hum
When your chin touches your chest you should be at your lowest hum
Repeat until your normal level hum is as low as you like it
This will prime your voice to talk at this pitch
Wear cologne/ men's deoderant
Buy a men's shirt (tshitrt, flannel, button up etc)
Fill in your eyebrows to make them darker and thicker
Spread your legs a little wider when sitting
Let hair on your hands, feet, and legs grow
Wear a beanie and tuck your hair into it
Wear boxers or briefs
Lift some weights if you can
Board shorts (without pockets in the front) do wonders to minimise the width of your hips. Always choose board shorts over swim trunks and over cargo shorts if appropriate
Have your friends compliment you with especially masculine terms (eg. you handsome king)
Broccoli
Cauliflower
Cabbage
Brussels sprouts
Kale
Collard greens
Turnips
Red grapes
Mushrooms
Seeds
Whole grains
Green tea
Oysters
Broccoli
Garlic
Bananas
Brazil nuts
Eggs
Some other resources:
www.ftmguide.org [bad website design but good advice]