I think teacher student relationships are very important for small children. Spending about 5-7 hours a day with students in an elementary setting is a lot of time to develop a relationship. Elementary school teachers also tend to have a lasting relationship on students because they spent so much time with them. When I think about my elementary school years, I think about the teachers who made an impact on me and a lot had to do with the relationship I had with them. I remember them fondly. Here are some ways I develop relationships with my students:
I believe that cooperation and collaboration are essential 21st century skills. In my classroom, I give students a lot of opportunities to work collaboratively in all subject areas. Some students like it, while others do not like it as much. I use technology apps, small group discussions, and projects to allow students to develop relationships with each other. Every day, students work together with their partners to solve math problems, write vocabulary sentences, and work on scientific investigations. I mix up the students as often as possible so they get a chance to work with everyone. We use the Think-Pair- Share method many times during the day. often. Students also give each other feedback and critique their work using postive language and suggestions. However, just putting students to work together in a shared space is not always enough. Students need tools and strategies to know how to work together and communicate. I often help students with sentence starters, ice breakers, speaking sticks, etc. Overall, I know students learn and enjoy working with each other and through student-student interaction, they are developing valuable skills that will help them be successful in the future.
I believe that students will learn responsible behavior when they are given an opportunity to be responsible. This idea is from Alfie Kohn, who has written many books on rewarding students. He states that telling students that they have to be responsible is not enough. They have to be allowed to be responsible. I promote responsible behavior by giving students tasks and choices in the classroom. Then I help them manage those tasks. For example, on Fridays, students get to sit anywhere in the classroom, with whomever they choose. Most often students pick their friends to sit next to and the beginning of the year, they tend forget about working and just talk to their friends. They are given a few opportunities to improve, but if it does not work out, they have to go back to their own seat. They try again the next week. After a while students learn that if they want to sit next to their friends, they have to exercise self-control and continue to focus on their work as well. Another way students learn responsibility is by completing their class job. All students share the responsibility of completing a job for our classroom. When students fail, they are not punished, but given another opportunity to learn and try again. Another way, I teach responsibility is by helping students manage their time and teaching them to prioritize tasks. In the beginning of the week, I assigned a few activities for students to complete during independent work time in class and at home. In the beginning of year, I tell students what to do by giving them suggestions. As the year goes on, I pull back on the suggestions and let them decide on their own how they want to manage their time. The students who figure this out, do not have homework towards the latter part of the week. When students do not use their class time wisely, they have homework and often cannot participate in other additional activities in class. Learning responsibility takes time, but I believe students need that opportunity to try.
My classroom is full of diverse learners and supporting this diversity is really important to me! Here are some techniques I use in my classroom.
I believe that punishments do not foster positive long-term behavior goals. Punitive consequences do not usually help students see the connection between their behavior and the effects of it. Often times, I think of a punishment given by an adult comes from a place of anger or retribution. In addition, sometimes punishments have nothing to do with the behavior. Punishments should never be used in the classroom.
I do believe and logical consequences and positive reinforcement. Here is my system for working with a child who has difficulty behaving.
Teachers have the power to motivate students in their classrooms. Sometimes this is difficult, but we should always Remember that we are here for the students first and foremost. Here are some things I do in my classroom to motivate students: