Absolutely, there have been times when I've had to give up a plan. One example was during my Philosophical class, a subject I tackled despite not majoring in it and grappling with logical thinking. At first, each assignment and quiz left me doubting my abilities. I was thinking I made so many mistakes and failures! Do I have to tell myself I was a failure and I always couldn't do things well? Or... Maybe I should think: This might be the chance making me grow fast!!! Amidst the challenges, I discovered a hidden strength – a love for facing adversity. Despite the initial struggles, I gradually learned to seek support from peers and instructors, and to adapt my approach to different subjects, showing cognitive flexibility.
This semester, unexpected obstacles further tested my adaptability. As a sophomore, midway through my university journey, I found myself without a clear plan for the future. Embracing new experiences has always been my style, even before university when I dreamed of studying abroad. However, a sudden visa issue disrupted my plans, plunging me into uncertainty. At first, I refused to change my mind and still sticked on the original plan, which was very frustrating and anxious because the fact was I could't go to study abroad possibly. Then, I had a very deep conversation with my friend. That saved me. We discussed about my final goal. My goal was try and learn different things in different places. I might just exchange in another university, no matter where it is. I might stay here and seek for more opportunities. I can learn so many things and have so many experiences from either ways. I realized that my dreams weren't tied to a single path. Instead of fixating on my initial plan, I embraced the idea of exploring other options. This revelation broadened my perspective and underscored the importance of cognitive flexibility in navigating life's twists and turns. By looking beyond my original plan, I found a multitude of opportunities waiting to be seized.
Looking back, the term "cognitive flexibility," learned during my Philosophical class, holds deep meaning. It encompasses not only the ability to adapt but also the willingness to view challenges from different angles. Through this lens, I've come to understand that letting go of a plan isn't a sign of failure but rather a testament to resilience and adaptability. It's a journey marked by growth, where embracing uncertainty opens doors to unforeseen opportunities and enriching experiences.