allies to queer, spoonie, disabled, etc
Are you the parent, partner, or friend to someone living with a chronic illness, who is queer or transgender/nonbinary, disabled, or in some other situation where you need support so you can support others in your life?
I've received amazing support from so many people in my life. But I've also been shamed & criticized by those who should've supported me. Sometimes the unsupportive person meant well, sometimes they meant exactly as it seemed. In reality, it usually makes little difference because, most of the time, impact is more important than intent.
If you want to be able to provide the best support you can but aren't sure how, I can help. Obviously, I'm not the person you're trying to support so I can't tell you exactly what they want or need. What I can do though, is I can help educate you on what their life is like in general & also on ways to find out how to support them like they need & want.
I can help best when the person you're trying to support is living with a similar experience as I am such as:
trauma
chronic illnesses (being a spoonie)
being queer & nonbinary in a binary cisheteronormative world
surviving domestic violence/emotional abuse
being fat
being disabled
living with mental illnesses
being neurodivergent
family estrangement
caregiving
If you need support for yourself so you can support others, let's chat!