9-20-2020
5-4-3-2-1 or --Anxiety is something most of us have experienced at least once in our life. Public speaking, big games/competitions, work and family situations are just some of the issues that can cause even the calmest person to feel a little stressed. This five-step exercise can be very helpful during periods of anxiety or panic by helping to ground you in the present when your mind is bouncing around between various anxious thoughts.
Before starting this exercise, pay attention to your breathing. Slow, deep, long breaths can help you maintain a sense of calm or help you return to a calmer state. Once you find your breath, go through the following steps to help ground yourself:
5: Acknowledge FIVE things you SEE around you. It could be a pen, a spot on the ceiling, anything in your surroundings.
4: Acknowledge FOUR things you can TOUCH around you. It could be your hair, a pillow, or the ground under your feet.
3: Acknowledge THREE things you HEAR. This could be any external sound. If you can hear your belly rumbling that counts! Focus on things you can hear outside of your body.
2: Acknowledge TWO things you can SMELL. Maybe you are in your bedroom or home office and smell pencil, or maybe you are in your kitchen and smell toast. If you need to take a brief walk to find a scent you could smell soap in the bathroom, or nature outside.
1: Acknowledge ONE thing you can TASTE. What does the inside of your mouth taste like—gum, coffee, or breakfast?
This technique is one of many options you could use if you are feeling anxious or overwhelmed. If anxiety is something that you struggle with regularly, and you continue to have trouble refocusing or coping with these feelings, please talk to your family, a counselor, a mental health provider or your primary care physician.
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SHIFTING attention or emoton: You can utilize the 5 senses to also shift your attention, if you would like to shift your thinking and emotion about current circumstances and experiences, see this link: Using your 5 senses to calm yourself
Although you may be focusing on one sense at a time, usually many senses are being used simultaneously to create an experience. The point is that you are more aware of your perceptions. You become more aware of what you are spending your efforts paying attention to! Focus on becoming aware of positive elements. Your senses will then guide you more readily toward the positive and help you relax.
1. Notice the beauty that surrounds you right now. Pick an object in your field of vision and pay attention to the details of color, texture, shadow, shape...
2. Use photos of favorite people, pets, places to decorate your office and home. Look at the photos to feel immediate comfort.
3. Paint the walls of your home with colors you find comforting.
4. Use plants and flowers to bring color into your work and living spaces.
1. Stop everything and just listen. What do you hear? What do you hear that is far away? Close to you?
2. Listen to the sounds of nature. Hear any birds? Wind tousling the leaves? Animals at play?
3. Place wind chimes near your window.
4. Listen to fun music.
5. Hum, clap, whistle, etc.
1. Wear a spritz of favorite perfume or hand lotion.
2. Smell fresh laundry.
3. Spritz bed linens with lavender spray for restfulness.
4. Breathe in the aroma of coffee or tea.
5. Don't forget to smell the roses, of course!
6. Diffuse essential oils.
7. Use scented bath salts.
8. Enjoy the smell of freshly cut oranges, lemons, or limes for a quick pick-me-up!
1. Enjoy a massage, either from yourself or someone else.
2. Notice the texture of your clothing.
3. Wrap yourself up in a soft, warm blanket or weighted blanket.
4. Soak in a hot bath.
5. Feel the texture of different objects, such as shells, feathers, a mug with tea, your hair, etc.
6. Pet a cat or dog.
1. Really be mindful of the food and beverages you put in your mouth. Texture, smell, taste, visual appeal, and pleasant memories all work together to make for a great dining experience.
2. Tempt your palate with a variety of foods - some familiar, some not. Experiment!
3. Sip tea to really mellow out. 4. Try cooking with exotic spices. 5. Taste slowly! Be aware of how great your food tastes.