Raising men - raising women resources

In response and support of viewing The Mask We Live In about raising boys, and Miss Representation about raising girls, this page is a space to share resources related to that movie and topics therein. Reference in part does not constitute endorsement in the whole, but rather thought-provoking conversation...

First, to create the understanding of what Toxic masculinity is:

  • Male violence
  • Sexism
  • It’s a dog-eat-dog world
  • Every man for himself--don't seek help or show weakness
  • Success/wealth, status, and power by any means necessary, even if it means hurting or using others
  • Resulting in isolation, increased violence, depression

Health Masculinity is:

  • Knowledge that I make choices that will have consequences
  • I must stand in the face of those choices if I harm another or myself whether intended or unintended
  • Understanding


A resource for men regarding therapy: https://www.mantherapy.org

Article: Psychology has a new approach to building healthier men, The Atlantic Jan 10, 2019

Discussion guide for the movie, from Influence Film Club