Build Connections That Support Your Growth and Create Impact for Others.
Mentorship is more than advice—it’s a dynamic relationship that fuels personal growth, career momentum, and leadership development. Mentorship should evolve as you do. Whether you’re launching your career, navigating leadership transitions, or seeking to give back, effective mentorship is a two-way street—mentors are people to learn from and lean on.
Learn to ask the right questions, avoid common pitfalls, and build a foundation for success.
Navigate leadership transitions, manage teams, and expand your professional influence.
Shape the next generation of leaders, stay connected to new trends, and find renewed purpose in giving back.
Many organizations offer formal mentoring programs—don’t overlook them. These programs often match you with colleagues based on goals, experience, and shared interests.
How to maximize formal mentoring opportunities:
Opt in early: Express interest and complete any self-assessments or applications thoughtfully.
Set expectations: Clarify what you’re hoping to gain or offer in the relationship.
Show up with intention: Consistency and preparation show respect and make the time worthwhile.
Give feedback: Formal programs improve with honest input—help shape a better experience for others, too.
If your company doesn’t offer a program, consider proposing one or asking your manager (or HR) how to connect with colleagues informally.
Not all mentoring needs to come with a sign-up sheet. Some of the most impactful relationships start with a simple conversation.
Tips for finding and becoming an informal mentor:
Look around: Peers, former classmates, managers, and even direct reports can become valuable mentors or mentees.
Be curious and generous: Ask questions, share what you’ve learned, and be open to cross-generational or cross-functional conversations.
Pay it forward: If you’ve benefited from mentorship, make time to support others. It strengthens your leadership and deepens your Kelley legacy.
Stay open to reverse mentoring: Younger professionals often bring fresh insights into technology, culture, and trends that can benefit seasoned leaders.
In case this crossed your mind, you're not alone in thinking that asking "Will you be my mentor?" can feel awkward or too formal. And offering to mentor someone directly can sometimes come across as presumptuous or unsolicited.
Here’s how to develop a mentoring relationship organically, without using the “M-word” right away:
Instead of asking someone to be your mentor, ask for something small and specific:
“I’d love to hear how you approached your last career move—would you be open to a quick call?”
“Your work on [project] really impressed me. Would you be open to sharing how you approached it?”
People are often flattered and happy to help—especially when the ask is focused, respectful, and time-bound.
Mentorship is a relationship, not a transaction.
If the first conversation goes well, follow up with a thank-you and ask if you can stay in touch. Share how their advice helped you.
Over time, regular check-ins can develop into a mentoring rhythm without ever labeling it as such.
If you’re further along in your career and want to support someone without saying “I’ll be your mentor,” just offer help in a way that respects their autonomy:
“If you ever want to bounce ideas around or talk through next steps, I’d be happy to share what’s worked for me.”
“I remember navigating that same decision—feel free to reach out if you ever want to compare notes.”
Positioning yourself as a sounding board creates openness without hierarchy.
Mentorship doesn’t have to be one-sided. Acknowledge that both parties can learn from the relationship:
“I always learn something new from conversations like this—thanks for the insight!”
“It’s great to compare perspectives across generations/functions—this has been really helpful for me, too.”
This helps dissolve any awkwardness and makes the relationship feel mutual and organic.
Think of mentorship not as a formal title, but as a series of generous conversations over time. Some mentors may be there for a season or a single decision. Others may stick with you throughout your career. All of them count.
You don’t need to say “Will you be my mentor?” to start a mentoring relationship. Just start the conversation—and if there’s rapport and trust, mentorship will follow.
When one mentor isn't enough—create a circle of trusted advisors who challenge, guide, and grow with you.
As your career becomes more complex, you’ll face decisions that impact not just your job, but your values, leadership style, and long-term fulfillment. That’s where a Career Advisory Board comes in.
Unlike a traditional mentor relationship, a Career Advisory Board brings together a small, diverse group of people who each bring a unique perspective to your growth. Think of it as your personal board of directors—people who know you, support you, and hold you accountable to the version of yourself you're working toward.
You want input from multiple perspectives—functional, generational, and personal
You’ve outgrown a single mentor or want feedback across different domains (e.g., leadership, industry trends, work-life integration)
You want a sounding board that evolves with your career
You’re navigating complexity—new roles, entrepreneurship, career transitions
There’s no one-size-fits-all formula, but a strong Career Advisory Board often includes:
What they offer:
Honest, real-time accountability and shared experiences
Example:
A Kelley classmate at your level in another industry
What they offer:
Wisdom from someone who's been there before
Example:
A retired executive, former boss, or mentor
What they offer:
A fresh perspective and emerging trends
Example:
A Gen Z or Millennial colleague
What they offer:
Contextual knowledge specific to your field
Example:
A former client or networking contact
What they offer:
Values-based support and truth-telling
Example:
A friend, coach, or trusted partner outside your work bubble
You don’t need five people right away—start with one or two, and build from there.
📥 Download the Career Advisory Board Planning Worksheet
Whether you’re seeking guidance or offering it, here are three ways to get started:
Reconnect with Kelley classmates and faculty on LinkedIn or through Kelley Alumni events.
Start a “mentor coffee challenge”—reach out to one new person a month for a 30-minute chat; no ulterior motive needed, just bring genuine curiosity.
Join the Kelley Alumni Network to find or become a mentor based on industry, interests, or geography.
💡 Remember: Mentorship doesn’t require a title—it requires initiative, curiosity, and the willingness to learn together.
📥 Download the Mentorship Network Planning Worksheet