There isn't one right or wrong way to learn, prepare, and experience Pregnancy and Birth. It’s all about finding your own path. There are so many avenues to explore—happy diving into one of life’s most transformational journeys!
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Books:
Matrescence: On the Metamorphosis of Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Motherhood by Lucy Jones *My absolute favorite book. A must-read for everyone—partners, friends, and families included.
Ina May's Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin
Like a Mother: A Feminist Journey Through the Science and Culture of Pregnancy by Angela Garbes
The Birth Partner by Penny Simkin
Birth and Breastfeeding: Rediscovering the Needs of Women During Pregnancy and Childbirth by Michel Odent
What No One Tells You: A Guide to Your Emotions from Pregnancy to Motherhood by Catherine Birndorf and Alexandra Sacks
Birthing from Within: An Extra-Ordinary Guide to Childbirth Preparation by Rob Horowitz, PhD, and Pam England, CNM, MA
The Inner Work of Birth by Nora Jean Tallman, CNM
Birthing the Tao: Supporting the Incarnating Soul's Development through Pregnancy or Rebirthing by Randine Lewis
Mindful Birthing: Training the Mind, Body, and Heart for Childbirth and Beyond by Nancy Bardacke
Classes/Prep:
Birthsmarter: Unbiased, inclusive, accessible birth + parenting education (online & in-person) https://birthsmarter.com
Spinning Babies: (virtual, on-demand) Not just for breech babies! Childbirth education focusing on physicality. https://www.spinningbabies.com
Hypnobabies: https://www.hypnobabies.com
Seed Mother: A maternal education program developed at Columbia University, focused on matrescence—the transformative process of becoming a mother. Through education, ritual, and community, it empowers mothers with science-backed tools and emotional support to navigate the challenges of new motherhood. https://www.seed-mother.com
Yiska Obadia: Massage therapist, acupuncturist, and birth educator https://www.yiskaobadia.com
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Reach out to local doulas and midwives (see below).
BIRTH DOULAS
Birth Doula:
Nati Zuniga https://www.madrealuna.com +1 (862) 242-4532 (birth & postpartum doula) *Nati was our doula and I am forever grateful for her
Ashlie Yair Greatfullwellness
Indigo Munoz 845 706 2386
Mary Elizabeth Kress (518) 416-7579
Mary Riley (845) 417-5546
Yiska Obadia Massage & Acupuncturist, Birth Educator
MIDWIFERY
Julia Hausman, Moonsong Midwifery (homebirth midwife) *Highly recommended.
Nuvance Midwives OB (hospital birth)
Susan Ransestead (homebirth midwife)
Nancy Rosensweig, Catskill "Unhurried holistic GYN and pregnancy care IN YOUR OWN HOME or in my Catskill NY office" https://www.catskillgynmidwifery.com
OB/GYN
Dr. Marcel Hinds (From community: I attempted a homebirth for my first baby and ended up with an emergency C section, and he & the team at Northern Duchess were wonderful.)
High risk OB: Kimberly Heller
Northern Dutchess (From community: I ended up delivering my second baby at Northern Dutchess again, and the midwives (especially Whitney) were excellent and super supportive of our VBAC goals, hooray!)
BODYWORK
See page Physical Therapy
Pregnancy and Birth are major transitional time for individuals and family and deserve hollistic approach. Explore what you might need, listen to your sensations and emotions, be open to explore more and navigate towards other care when/if you feel like your needs are shifting.
ATTEND PRENATAL YOGA CLASSES
A Tree Told Me, Red Hook, Hudson
Yoga and Sensory Pathways.
Prenatal - PostPartum 'Baby & Me' 'Toddler & Me' - Family Yoga 'Kids & Kin' (3 to 7 years old)
Mother Blessing Ceremony
"It made me think about my motherhood in a completely new way. Don't miss out on this truly unique and blissful experience!"
CONTACT WITH NATURE
Open your window and listen to the birds.
Go lay down in the grass.
Open the window and feel the fresh air on your skin.
Go for a gentle walk. See the section "walks" in Baby Classes & Activities
Touch the trunk of a tree, and breathe.
Look at the sky, your baby in your arms.
Have fresh flowers in your bedroom.
Have a plant in your bedroom.
Create a little altar with leaves, twigs, and feather close to you.
Immerse in a botanical bath.
FIND YOUR VILLAGE
For hang-outs, for second hands items, for random questions or needs of recommendations! SIGNAL is similar to What'sApp but more secure, open source, and NOT Meta.
HV Parents SIGNAL Groups
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HV 23/24 Parents What's App Group
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