64% of bullying isn’t reported
An average of 5,300 suicides each year due to bullying
2nd leading cause of death for people under 18
70% of kids have witnessed bullying in their time at school
About 20% of people between ages 12-18 have experienced some form of bullying
About 19% of students in grades 9–12 report being bullied on school property in the 12 months preceding the survey taken
“The two modes of bullying include direct (e.g., bullying that occurs in the presence of a targeted youth) and indirect (e.g., bullying not directly communicated to a targeted youth such as spreading rumors). In addition to these two modes, the four types of bullying include broad categories of physical, verbal, relational (e.g., efforts to harm the reputation or relationships of the targeted youth), and damage to property.” (stopbullying.gov)
"Bullying is most likely to occur in school, on the school bus, or on the grounds outside the school." (stopbullying.gov)
Home Life:
Being abused or harassed by an adult or older sibling (most likely to lead to violence)
Gaining a sibling
Losing a loved one
Parents splitting up
Not getting love or attention from their parents
Getting too much negative attention from parents (parent bullying the child)
Social Life:
Low self-esteem
Big ego
They have been bullied
Friendships and relationships aren’t secure
Lonely
Jealous of the person being bullied
When in a group of people (tend to gang up on one person)
School Life:
Doing bad in school in any way
Letting yourself down through school work causing one to take it out on others
Trauma/Stress to any effect:
PTSD + Triggers
Crime:
Children who were bullies in middle to high school are 60 percent more likely to have a criminal conviction by the age of 24
A bully is five times more likely than a victim to have a serious criminal record in adulthood
Workplace bullying causes $3 billion in lost productivity and a $19 billion loss in employment every year
Behavior:
Adults who were bullies as children are 10 times more likely to lie, six times more likely to fight and almost three times as likely to engage in harassment than adults who were not bullies
Bullies are 11 times more likely to have had conduct disorder than non-bullies
Types of Adult bullies:
Narcissistic Adult Bully: Self-centered and does not share empathy with others → additionally, there is little anxiety about the consequences
Impulsive Adult Bully: More spontaneous and plan their bullying out less → even if consequences are likely, this adult bully has a hard time restraining their behavior
Physical Bully: Rarely turns to physical confrontation, there are, nonetheless, bullies that use physicality → in some cases, the adult bully may not actually physically harm the victim, but may use the threat of harm, or physical domination through looming
Verbal Adult Bully: Start rumors about the victim, or use sarcastic or demeaning language to dominate or humiliate another person. This subtle type of bullying also has the advantage – to the bully – of being difficult to document → however, the emotional and psychological impacts of verbal bullying can be felt quite keenly and can result in reduced job performance and even depression
Secondary Adult Bully: Does not initiate the bullying, but joins in so that he or she does not actually become a victim down the road → secondary bullies may feel bad about what they are doing, but are more concerned about protecting themselves
Being bullied damages self-image
Short term: views oneself as undesirable
Long-term: more susceptible to becoming depressed; angry
Victim has no control over bullying process
Short-term: feels powerless -> Learned Helplessness (one can’t do anything to change a bad situation)
Long-term: Hopelessness; depression
Victim feels seen by others as weak and pathetic
Short-term: learns to believe that this is actually true
Long-term: low self-esteem; perception of self as easy to control/victimize
Victim shamed by bully
Short-term: believes what bully is saying about them is true; internalizes negative labe+ holds self to the same standard that bully applies - feels like a failure
Long-term: depression; revenge fantasies; anger; feelings of rage
Victim ostracized from groups
Short-term: feels like an outcast/outsider
Long-term: Increased likelihood of being a loner
Wounded Self-Concept from bullying
Short-term: Harder to believe in self
Long-term: Struggle with persevering through difficult situations
Victim avoids setting where bullying occurs
Short-term: skips school -> deficits in academic performance
Long-term: If deficits persists - lose occupational opportunities:
Limited job prospects available
Unemployment
Victims who are bullied because of their sensitivity
Short-term: learns that sensitivity is bad -> represses emotion
Long-term: emotionally avoidant; angry; cynical = difficult to maintain intimate relationships
Victims bullied for being different
Short-term: adopts negative attitude towards the qualities that make them unique (sexual orientation, religious affiliation…)
Long-term: Rejects/hides these qualities- not authentic self; could form general hatred of quality they were bullied for (ex: becomes homophobic)
Why do they bully?
Bullies tend to have a form of maladjustment-- failure to cope with the demands of a normal social environment
They bully to establish their social status and network
Research has also shown that bullying can be more about difficulties in the bully's life than about the victim
Stereotypes
Stereotypes held by the general public are influential for the perpetrators in leading to how they are viewed as "powerful" or "influential" in their social circles
These stereotypes include:
High on psychopathology
Low on social skills
Possessing few competencies that peer groups value
Long-Term Effects
Abuse alcohol/ drugs in adolescence and adulthood
Engage in early sexual activity
Drop out of school
Have criminal convictions/ traffic citations as adults
Be abusive to romantic partners, spouses, children, or other adults
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