Prosocial behaviors are actions that benefit another person or group whether that be through cooperation, comforting, helping, or sharing.
There are two main ideas on what motivates prosocial behavior in general, the first being Egoistic Motivation and the second being the Empathy-Altruism Hypothesis. Egoistic motivation is a set of theories centered around the idea that helping another (enacting prosocial behavior) will provide a benefit for the person helping or will allow them to avoid an aversive arousal stimulus that becomes present when watching someone in need. The empathy-altruism hypothesis is centered around the idea of genuine altruism, prosocial behavior that is enacted for the pure purpose of helping another, not for one's own benefit. In this case the behavior is motivated by empathy, a set of feelings that are present in response to another's distress.
The belief that someone else will step in often generates bystander behavior. This is also known diffusion of responsibility. Since there is no personal burden on any one individual, no one feels the need to step in.
The belief that no threat really exists. If no one else acknowledges the threat at hand, everyone tends to ignore it. Even if the scenario is potentially dangerous, we tend to ignore it when others don't notice the threat
To counter the diffusion of responsibility, just voicing the emergency at hand can immediately lead to change.
Feeling a personal connection to the victim can drastically increase the likelihood for someone to help out.
Protecting the victim through practical assistance that helps to decrease stress, reinstate a routine, and give them a stronger sense of control in their lives.
Enacting emotional support means providing a safe and comforting environment to discuss the trauma, someone they can trust, and a feeling of outside commitment to their individual wellbeing.
Taking care of responsibilities one has, to give them time to deal with the traumatic event
Encourage a healthy lifestyle and routine whilst making that easier for them by providing them with easy access to things like healthy food or time to exercise
Watch for the development of unhealthy dependancies such as a reliance on drugs
Support enjoyable experiences by organizing plans with them and telling those around them to do the same
Don't pressure them to discuss the event or their feelings
Give them your undivided attention by ensuring you are ready to hear what they have to say and have no other immediate responsibilities
Acknowledge how they feel but don't relate it to yourself, respect that it's their experience
Refrain from using reassurances such as "You will be alright" or "It's going to be ok"
each lesson or helpful conversation can be played to an audience as consumable, employable material
make support into "teaching" lessons
encourage empathy in your immediate communities
reinforce upstanding behavior
practical and emotional support
the network of resources around you
therapy/clinical help
extra-community spaces
school counselors
medical community
National Suicide prevention Hotline
1 (800) 273-8255
Online Talk Therapy Programs
The Trevor Project
1 (866) 488-7386
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
Disaster Distress Hotline
1 (800) 985–5990
National Center on Domestic Violence, Trauma, and Mental Health
In general, people who tend to be more caring and empathetic are more likely to practice upstander behavior.
While some people are raised to have more altruistic personalities, active upstanding can be learned.
The possession of practical, concrete upstander skills can dramatically influence one's behavior.
In contrast to adults, children are actually more likely to check on someone in danger if they are in pairs.
Their ability to talk through their fears with each other is what lets them break social norms which they haven’t internalized yet.
Reactive behavior tends to be based on conditions and emotions, and is blamed on circumstances
Proactive people make conscious decisions, based in their values, to intervene.
Even if you don't actively intervene in a situation, just pointing out the problem to others could be effective.
Speak up! Voice your opinion if you think a situation is wrong or if someone is in danger.
When teaching children how to avoid the bystander effect, asking them to share their fears about bullying and standing up can be instrumental
When children are open about their concerns, this eliminates Pluralistic Ignorance
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