This page looks at different types of non-monogamy... but my personal focus is on Polyamory... which typically involves non-monogamy... but not necessarily.
My orientation towards Polyamory has been a long time in coming... but better late than never I suppose.
The "Swinger Lifestyle" (the "LS") is on my radar as well... but not as much as polyamorous relationships.
Podcasts are a good start.
My two favorites are:
With: Emma & Fin
Interview format... wide range of related topics... focus is on Ethical Non-Monogamy.
With: Mr. & Mrs. Jones
Talk Format... very insightful... focus is on the Swinger Lifestyle.
Compersion - noun - The feeling of joy associated with seeing two of one's sexual or romantic partners having a sexual or romantic relation between them, coined as antonym of (sexual or romantic) jealousy.
Excellent Introduction (PDF) on the subject.
Sourced from the Usenet newsgroup - alt.polyamory
"Serving the Polyamorous Community."
Excellent resource.
"Supporting Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy & New Models for Relationships."
"Opening the door to freedom and possibilities in loving relationships. ... Through education, awareness, and acceptance of polyamory."
Dating Site... with good resources.
FAQ Page included
The Swingers Board .com used to be a great resource, but it died.
I have a profile at SLS... it is an OK Swing Date site.
Most of my "Swing" expereince has been as the proverbial "Dreaded Single Guy", so I never got any traction there.
I'm kind of done with it now. 🥴
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