I am a pretty regular guy. A Hippie Carpenter turned Geek.
I like anything to do with water:
Swimming, sailing, canoeing, tropical beaches, etc.
My main passion these days is traveling on local rivers.
I am an old Boy Scout. I can camp & hike & stuff.
I know a LOT of good knots. ... :-o ... ;-)
I like to ride my bicycle.
I am pretty much NEVER in a hurry... for ANYTHING!
"What? ... Me Worry?" -- A.E. Neuman
Love is Abundant & Endless ... Time & Energy are not.
That little nugget pretty well sums it all up. Still... I feel it is worth the effort.
I was introduced to the idea of Polyamory around 2014. It took me a few years to really identify with it, but at some point I realized that it was how I had been my whole life. Anyway, It sure helped explain a few things. It has been a rather long & complicated journey, but I am glad for it.
My attitude towards women is best summed up by the movie "Don Juan DeMarco" (1994)
... especially this bit:
"By seeing beyond what is visible to the eye. Now there are those, of course, who do not share my perceptions, it's true. When I say that all my woman are dazzling beauties, they object. The nose of this one is too large; the-the hips of another, they are too wide; perhaps the breasts of a third, they are too small. But I see these women for how they truly are... glorious, radiant, spectacular, and perfect, because, I am not limited by my eyesight. Women react to me the way that they do, Don Octavio, because they sense that I search out the beauty that dwells within until it overwhelms everything else. And then they cannot avoid their desire, to release that beauty and envelope me in it. So, to answer your question, I see as clear as day that this great edifice in which we find ourselves is your villa. It is your home. And as for you, Don Octavio DeFlores, you are a great lover like myself, even though you may have lost your way and your accent. Shall I continue?"
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Don Juan DeMarco on:
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The Mind & Spirit are strong... but Mr. Floppy is a bit weak.
I'm still as horny as ever, but age has taken its toll.
So far I have been unwilling to use drugs to counteract this trend.
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Real intimacy is not about sex, but about truth. When you can live as your true self, and someone says, "I am here to support you unconditionally, you are safe with me." That is real intimacy.
I started developing this site (one of many) in August 2019