November
November's Theme: Healing
This months we're exploring ideas about healing; how we heal relationships, ourselves, gratitude, with the truth. Like so many of life's big ideas, there's no one way. As we slip into the holiday season, look at the healing powers you have all around you!
Lesson A: Don’t Run Away from the Hard Work of Healing!
Wonder Box
Story
Let's Be Enemies- Maurice Sendak
Meditation
Questions:
1. Have you ever had a fight with a friend? How did that make you feel?
2.What does it look/feel/sound like to mend a friendship?
Activity: Knot Tying
Supplies: Small rope, stick
Let's learn how to tie knots! Learning how to tie, and untie knots is a useful skill! Watch this neat video of a girl teaching us 5 different knots!
UU of The Week: Christopher Reeve
Lesson B: Let Gratitude Heal You
Wonder Box
Story
Thankful by Eileen Spinelli
Meditation
Questions:
1. When you are sad, does that make it harder for you to remember things you are grateful for?
2. Are there people in your life that especially help you remember the good things in life?
Activity: ABC's of Gratitude
Supplies Needed: journal, pen
As a family list things they are grateful for, beginning with “A” and working all the way through the alphabet to “Z.” Take turns, helping one another as the letters go on. The big idea behind this is to think of all of the big, and little things we have to be grateful for in our everyday lives!
UU of The Week:Annie Bizzell Jordan WIllis
Lesson C: Listen Before You Try to Help and Heal Others
Wonder Box
Story
Strega Nona- Tomie dePaola
Meditation
Questions:
1. How might the world be different if we asked people how they might want to be helped?
2. Has anyone ever tried to help you without first asking what you really need? Was it helpful?
Activity: Lego Perspectives
Supplies: two groups of legos with exactly the same legos in each group.
This game is best played in pairs. The two people sit with their back touching, so they can't see the other persons legos. The first person builds something with the legos in their pile. Then, they have to communicate with their partner how to build the structure they made, without looking at it. The challenge comes by having to describe where the pieces go and how they fit, without looking at each other. This is a great exercise when you're talking about how people see AND communicate in the world!
UU of The Week: Clara Barton
Lesson D: Heal by Telling the Truth of Thanksgiving
Wonder Box
Story
Story
Meditation
Questions:
1. Why do you think there are so many myths around Thanksgiving?
2. How would you retell the Thanksgiving story for someone else?
Activity:
As a family, research who were the indigenous people in the area where you currently live: https://native-land.ca/
UU of The Week: Margot Adler
Lesson E: Find Ways to Comfort Yourself
Wonder Box
Story
Chicken Soup With Rice- Maurice Sendak
Meditation
Questions:
1. Good food is just one way people comfort themselves. What else comforts you?
2. How does church comfort you?
Activities: Comfort Journal
Supplies Needed: Journal, writing instrument
As a family, brainstorm ways that people comfort themselves and each other. Individually in your journals, write a list of ideas that best suits each person. When times of stress arise, as a family reference this list for ways to comfort each other.