Developing your weaknesses

Everyone has their personal strengths and weaknesses.

We should work on our weaknesses while using our strengths to cover them up.

That is how you become greater.

Thankfully Socionics can help with that.

After knowing your accurate Socionics type, you can then proceed to analyze your functions and figure out their usage. Your base function will be the dominant character of what determines your overall character. Your creative function will be what guides your base function, in other words, what kind of character traits you have that support you overall character. Your demonstrative function will be the other side of your dominant character, the side that is not directly aware of or used boldly but rather what supports your overall character. Meanwhile, your POLR will be the part of your character that you will struggle with and hate while your suggestive will be the part that you struggle as well but will at least want to use more of. 

With these being said, it is easy to tell that your base function, demonstrative function, creative function will be your obvious strengths and you don't have to develop them any further than necessary. Your ignoring function is also on the strengths side, but is usually suppressed despite you being able to use it well too so no worries for developing it too ahead of the game. Your 2D and 1D functions from your POLR to your suggestive will be the parts you will have to develop more of in order to become better and more successful in the game of life.

Without anymore delays let's get into it, as always.

Developing Te:

-Try to do more research on your hobbies that you already have in an academical manner, in other words, try to receive more facts and details from books, articles and the internet. For example if you enjoy a certain sport very much try to do more research on the tournaments of the game and remember the points, strategies and player styles within the game.

-When describing a situation, don't apply personal feelings or opinions and try to state the factual facts, in other words, what exactly happened. For example, after going on a trip and talking to a friend, tell them what exactly happened during the trip in accurate details. liking climbing a mountain and what procedures you took exactly, without putting much emphasis on how you felt and how much fun you had. 

-Always put more emphasis on facts, including textbook facts and real life facts to your daily life situations. Think of reality as 1 is 1 and 2 is 2, as real as it is.

Developing Ti: 

-Make more sense of everything that is around you, try to put things in an order and not just scattered around. When you get into contact with information, try to say yourself on the inside of your mind of what just happened in an objective manner. For example if you just had a conversation with a friend or whoever try to figure out what had just happened during the talk and repeat who said what and what happened after, as well as coming up with counter arguments against what they have said to make them make sense.

-Know about logical fallacies, research that online and now see how that can be applied to you in real life situations. They will greatly help one sort out there logic and to attack other's with the help of it.

-Slow down and take a brief second to think of what you are coming up with and saying before actually making them happen, this will greatly organize your speech in a more factual and reasonable manner.

Developing Fe:

-Try to laugh more, it will never hurt to have more fun with friends. For example at a party it is alright to laugh louder than everyone else at times it only tells them you are enjoying the moment. Remember emotion expression is not about crying all the time but more of laughing all the time!

-It is not embarrassing to show positive emotions, always remember that and have that mindset. It is scientifically proven to be true that when we make certain expressions on our faces, it actually brightens our feelings on the inside too.

-Don't feel annoyed if someone suddenly comes to you and cries in front of you, that is a sign they trust you and are actively seeking emotional support. Never feel annoyed even in the slightest bit, always try to help them emotionally first and then solving problems next.

Developing Fi:

-Contact and talk to friends more often, this will harmonzie the relationship between you guys more. For example, don't just go ditch one friend when you have made another, try to include everyone in your circle and up to date in order to maintain the psychological distance.

-Try to come up with things you like and don't like in terms of the feelings you have for them. For example, if you like a certain flavor of an ice cream, try to say why you like them in terms of the positive feelings they bring you than the reasonings of why they taste good.

-Deal matters with a more personal approach; instead of focusing on the things in life that has to be done, try to focus more on what will be truly good for you, that is right, you yourself. Value personal happiness more that is.

Developing Se:

-Try to speak louder in public and do not be afraid to show yourself in front of a group. If you still can't speak louder after trying hard, then try even harder by shouting at times to increase the presence. At the end of the day, you should feel proud standing in front of a group talking than to feel shy and nervous.

-Try to do more physical things in life, this does not need to be sports at all. Drawing, origami, dancing and even sexual acts are great for developing more Se. Remember, the goal here is for one to have a greater direct connection and presence in the world filled with motions.

-Focus on matters more related to the physical matters of the tangible world, not some intangible and abstract imagination and daydreaming going inside your head.

Developing Si:

-Take breaks at times and actually do something enjoyable and meaningful. Find more hobbies that are interesting and connected to the physical world to increase the closeness between you and your environment. Drinking, eating, sex and sleep are all great.

-Taking a mountain climb, going for a walk during the sunny day or going for a slow but lovable picnic for half a day would be great things to do! Enjoy life!

-Do more things that are actually NEEDED for YOU, not things that are additional and unimportant.

Developing Ne:

-Always try new things everywhere. For example when going to a restaurant try to order things that are completely new to you, or going to another restaurant with a special theme or from another country. Another would be to take another bus route than the same ones you take everytime, it also tells you the other options so in emergency if one day the old way doesn't work you always have backups to pick from.

-Try to say to yourself the good things you are seeing from a subject, basically to become more optimistic by all means. Act cheerful and bright at times and that will actually change you overtime.

-Hang out with new people, go out and meet new folks out there! That is right, you want to see and view more new perspectives from different kinds of people. Don't stick with the same old pals all the time.

Developing Ni:

-Be a bit more far sighted and make decisions for long terms more often than immediate and short ones. Plan ahead and do more useful reflections of the past and the present to view how the future will play out.

-Go sit on a chair or lie in bed to daydream and imagine new things. For example this could include fantasizing about your love life or your ideal utopia whatever. Have fun doing it and take a good break alongside.

-Save up resources more, this could be both money and energy resources. Don't spend all your money on some stupid things you don't actually use and don't spend all your body's energy in the morning and having to sleep right after lunch.

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I sincerely hope this post will help! Everyone has their own weaknesses and we all have to develop them to become better in life so we won't struggle with problems and issues.