Habits & Your Identity

If you are in this program it's probably because your pornography use has become habitual —meaning you've repeated it so many times your brain has automated it. Our brain's ability to create habits is essential to our physical and spiritual development. During a worldwide devotional to the Church's young adults, President Russell M. Nelson shared: “Now, this is a singular time in your life. There won’t be another quite like it. You are establishing priorities and patterns that will dramatically affect not just your mortal life but also your eternal life" (Choices for Eternity, Nelson 2022). In this lesson, we will explore how you can use habits to "continually hold fast to the iron rod" (1 Nephi 8:30). 

The Law of Increasing and Decreasing Returns

Habits can bring increasing returns or decreasing returns. The left side of the figure below illustrates that there are things in life like eating, and pornography, that bring immediate reward but the longer you do it the worse you feel. The right side shows that other activities like learning to play the piano or a new sport provide lower rewards when you first start doing them but the longer you do them the more joy you feel.