By Kristin Peterson
Families that gather together stay together! There is no date on the above article written by an unknown author. Looking at the plat maps from 1912, we can see the property owned by the Flataus that is mentioned. Looking at the family dynamics in a 1900 Sunday gathering event, we have come up with the following information to provide a fun and thought-provoking picture of what the Sunday events looked like. The year 1900 was chosen because of the ages of most of the family members that year.
In 1900, eighteen adults were in the Flatau Family Gathering, as mentioned in the article above. Through the immigration and census data, we can add four more adults. Daniel and his wife Regina and Teresa (Johan's wife) and new husband, Johan Doepke.
Of the brothers, Johan and Daniel, only Daniel was living in the area with his second wife, Regina, who came over to America with him in 1894. Johan Flatau had passed away in Germany at age 60. In 1900, Johan and Teresa had 29 grandchildren. Nineteen may have attended Sunday gatherings with their parents. Teresa was undoubtedly happy to spend her last years in America with her children and grandchildren. Teresa passed away in 1912.
Theodore, Daniel's son, lost his wife and oldest daughter in 1898 to Typhoid. He wed a year later. In 1900, he and his second wife, Emma, lost their first child, Otto, when he was three months old. When attending the Sunday dinners in 1900, Emma would be the step-mom to Theodore's children: Ida (10 years), Amanda (7 years), Ernest (5 years), Louis (4 years), and Albert 2 years.
A 1900s Sunday dinner
The story about how the family had their big Sunday dinners in three shifts was done more for efficiency than anything else. Eleven men and three teenage boys may have shared their dinner in the first shift. The women's table may have consisted of eleven women and five teenage girls. Eighteen children between the ages of ten and four shared the next shift, most eating picnic-style during the summer months. There were eight children aged two and under, with three being born in 1900. The total number of children ten and under was 26.
In any event, it is a fun and informational snapshot looking at the ages of everyone at a 1900s family Sunday gathering. There may have been other Flatau family members attending the Sunday dinners.