“Write a short executive summary in the writing style of Franz Kafka of the most important benefits of the Empathy Circle practice as developed by Edwin Rutsch, suitable for presentations, grants, and stakeholder outreach.”
To: The High Officials, The Tribunal, and Those Waiting in the Hallways
Subject: Regarding the Procedure for Exiting the Labyrinth
One wakes up one morning and finds that, without having done anything wrong, one is misunderstood. We live in a world of endless corridors, filled with doors that do not open, where we speak into telephones that have been disconnected. We stand before the law, or before our neighbor, shouting our case, but the words are swallowed by the fog. It is a trial that never ends, a bureaucracy of silence where every man is an island, trembling in his room, waiting for a verdict that never comes.
Into this absurdity, Mr. Edwin Rutsch introduces a strange, almost terrifyingly simple procedure. It is called the Empathy Circle.
The method is rigid, like a law of nature one has forgotten. A small group gathers. One person speaks—confessing the anxieties of their soul or the logic of their mind. The other, who usually sits like a stone judge or a distracted clerk, is forbidden to turn away. They must repeat, with the precision of a court stenographer, exactly what was said. They cannot interpret; they cannot dismiss. They must simply prove that the words arrived.
1. The Proof of Existence
In the normal course of affairs, one speaks and wonders if one exists at all, for the world gives no answer. In the Circle, the answer is immediate. The listener reflects the speaker’s words. Suddenly, the speaker realizes, with a shock, "I am here. I have been heard." The terrible solitude, which seemed as infinite as the walls of the Castle, develops a crack. One is no longer a beetle on its back, flailing its legs in the air, but a human being recognized by another human being.
2. The Suspension of the Trial
We are accustomed to being judged. Every conversation is a tribunal where we defend our innocence. But here, the judgment is suspended. The listener is not an executioner, but a mirror. The anxiety that usually grips the throat—the fear of saying the wrong thing, of being arrested by a look of disdain—vanishes. The nervous system, usually wound tight by the fear of unseen authorities, begins to unspool. It is a reprieve.
3. The Way Out of the Maze
We spend our lives running through the maze of our own arguments, bumping into the mirrors of our own prejudices. This practice forces us to stop running. By stepping into the mind of another, if only for a moment, we escape the prison of our own skull. We find that the "other"—that terrifying stranger—is also lost in the maze. In this shared recognition, a community is formed. It is not a happy community, perhaps, but it is a real one, stripped of illusions.
It is unlikely that the Great Authorities will approve of a method that is so simple and requires no paperwork. Nevertheless, it is necessary. The Empathy Circle offers a key to the locked door. It allows us to speak, not to the air, but to a face that looks back. It is the only way to endure the silence.
"There is a goal, but no path; what we call the path is hesitation." — Yet this Circle, perhaps, is a momentary path.