Parent/Guardian's Code of Conduct

I recognize that by allowing my child to play with the Des Moines Defenders, I must be actively involved and committed in the following ways:

1. I will ensure my player is passing in their studies and maintaining a grade point average equivalent to not less than 2.0 on a 4.0 scale. If my child does not maintain a satisfactory level, I will notify the coach, advisor and/or program director.

2. I will encourage my player to abide by the team rules and program guidelines. (See the Defenders Player’s Code of Conduct which follows.)

3. I will be a good example to my player and remain under control before, during, and after all games and practices. I will not yell at or criticize game officials, my child, other Defender players, Defender coaches, or anyone from the opposing team’s side. I will make only supportive sideline comments. I will allow the coaches to coach the team.

4. I will show appreciation for good plays, whether made by Defenders players or opposing players.

5. I will remember that the game is for the players and no one else, and I will do all I can to support and encourage the players.

6. I will take an active interest in the attitude of my player while participating in practices and games. I will help my player learn that attitude is a reflection of character and that good sportsmanship is as important as winning.

7. I will make sure all required forms are completed and that player fees are paid. In order to accomplish the work needed to run the organization, I will sign-up to volunteer during the as agreed to with registration or pay the waiver fee. Coaches and Concessions Coordinators are exempt from this requirement.

8. I understand and will abide by the Defenders’ Appeal Process.

a. If I have an issue/dispute with an individual related to the Defenders, I will contact that person in person or by telephone to seek resolution. I will not address issues via e-mail, as this method of communication can more easily result in misunderstanding.

b. If we are unable to resolve the issue/dispute, I will speak with the individual with the program director or advisor present for clarification of policy.

c. If we are still not able to resolve the issue/dispute, the advisor/program director member with whom we spoke has sole discretion as to whether or not the matter should be taken to the entire advisory board for consideration and assistance in resolution and/or reconciliation.

9. I recognize that the Defenders is not focused solely on providing recreational opportunities, but is a competitive sports program and that playing time is at the sole discretion of the coach, based on his/her decisions as to what is in the best interests of the team and its players.

10.All decisions regarding game situations will be made by the coaching staff and are not open for discussion. If you have a concern, please call the coach or Athletic Director and do not disturb a practice or a game. This includes times immediately following or prior to practices or games. Verbal assaults or confrontations with coaches (by parent or child) concerning playing time or game decisions will not be tolerated. Violations of this rule may be cause for disciplinary action, up to and including the immediate dismissal of the family from the Defenders program.

11.I understand that if I fail to abide by this Code of Conduct, the Des Moines Defenders has the authority to ask my family to leave the program and that no fees will be refunded.