Parent/Guardian's Code of Conduct

Des Moines Defenders Parent Code of Conduct

By allowing my child to participate in the Des Moines Defenders program, I agree to actively support the mission, values, and expectations of the organization in the following ways:

1. Academic Responsibility
   I will ensure my child maintains satisfactory academic performance, defined as a minimum 2.0 GPA (on a 4.0 scale). If my child falls below this standard, I will promptly notify the coach, advisor, and/or program director.
   
   

2. Support of Team Standards
   I will encourage my child to follow all team rules and program guidelines, including those outlined in the Player Code of Conduct.
   
   

3. Positive Sideline Behavior
   I will model self-control and sportsmanship before, during, and after all practices and games. I will not yell at or criticize officials, players, coaches, or opposing teams. I will offer only positive, supportive comments and will allow coaches to coach.
   
   

4. Respect for All Players
   I will show appreciation for effort and good play from both Defenders players and opponents.
   
   

5. Player-Focused Perspective
   I understand that the game is for the players. I will support and encourage all athletes in a positive manner.
   
   

6. Character Development
   I will take an active role in monitoring my child’s attitude and behavior. I will reinforce that attitude reflects character and that good sportsmanship is as important as winning.
   
   

7. Program Support & Responsibilities
   I will ensure all required forms are completed and fees are paid on time. I will also fulfill volunteer commitments as agreed upon during registration or pay the designated waiver fee. (Coaches and Concessions Coordinators are exempt.)
   
   

8. Conflict Resolution Process
   I agree to follow the Defenders’ established process for addressing concerns:
   
   

   • I will first communicate directly with the individual involved, in person or by phone (not via email), to seek resolution.
     
     

   • If unresolved, I will meet with the individual alongside the program director or advisor.
     
     

   • If still unresolved, the program director/advisor will determine whether the matter should be brought before the advisory board.
     
     

9. Understanding of Competitive Play
   I acknowledge that the Defenders is a competitive program. Playing time is determined solely by the coach based on what is best for the team and its players.
   
   

10. Respect for Coaching Decisions
    All game-related decisions are made by the coaching staff and are not open for sideline discussion.
    
    

    • Concerns should be addressed by contacting the coach or Athletic Director at an appropriate time—not during or immediately before/after practices or games.
      
      

    • Confrontational behavior toward coaches by parents or players will not be tolerated and may result in disciplinary action, including removal from the program.
      
      

11. Accountability
    I understand that failure to comply with this Code of Conduct may result in my family being dismissed from the Des Moines Defenders program without refund.