Learning how to advocate for yourself when dealing with healthcare and insurance related concerns.
Welcome to AKG Advocacy
- Always Keep Going -
AKG Advocacy was founded by Carley Cook in 2025 after personally facing the overwhelming challenges of getting vital medications covered by Medicare and a Medicare Advantage plan. Before becoming disabled in 2022, Carley worked as a Registered Medical Assistant in surgical offices, where she managed prior authorizations, appeals, and completed both clinical and administrative tasks. (Visit carleycook.com for more information.)
Carley’s journey into healthcare was deeply personal. After being dismissed and gaslit by doctors for over two decades, she was finally diagnosed with a genetic connective tissue disorder at age 23. That experience lit a fire — not just to advocate for herself, but to ensure others wouldn’t have to navigate the same confusing, frustrating system alone.
Her mission has always been simple: help people however she can. Whether working directly with patients or educating herself on the ins and outs of insurance, she’s committed to empowering others with the tools they need to speak up and get the care they deserve.
We hope the information here equips you with the confidence and knowledge to push back, push forward, and get the answers you need.
And above all, remember to:
Always Keep Going!
If you’re not sure where to begin, follow this step-by-step guide to get the most out of our resources
Before you dive into insurance and healthcare basics, start with A Message from Our Founder, Carley Cook. This page explains who Carley is, what inspired AKG Advocacy, and why this resource exists. It will help you understand the heart behind this work and how it’s meant to support you.
Begin by learning the essentials of health insurance. This section explains key terms, helps you understand how coverage works, and includes overviews of:
This foundation will make everything else on the site easier to understand.
Once you’re comfortable with the basics, explore our practical advice for communicating with insurers, documenting interactions, and getting results.
Here you’ll also find information on Insurance Gaslighting—how to recognize manipulative denial tactics, misleading explanations, or inconsistent reasoning—and how to respond professionally and effectively to protect your rights.
Self-advocacy isn’t only about insurance—it starts in the exam room. Learn how to prepare for appointments and assert your needs with these pages:
Advocating Starts at Your Doctor’s Office – how to plan ahead, ask the right questions, and stand firm when your concerns are dismissed
Pre-Appointment Checklist – what to bring, how to track symptoms, and how to ensure your voice is heard
Patient Bill of Rights – understand your protections as a patient and what to do if those rights are ignored
Chronic Pain Management – resources for patients struggling to get adequate pain care, including how to discuss treatment options confidently, address stigma, and respond if you’re unfairly labeled as “drug-seeking”
Healthcare Provider Gaslighting – how to recognize medical gaslighting, real-world examples, and proven strategies to respond firmly but professionally. This section is broken down into healthcare provider gaslighting and health insurance gaslighting.
Sometimes you’re not advocating for yourself—you’re advocating for someone you love. That can feel overwhelming, but you’re not alone.
Visit the Caregiver Corner to learn how to navigate healthcare and insurance as a caregiver. Be sure to explore:
Templates to help you organize appointments, medications, and records
The difference between Power of Attorney (POA) and HIPAA
Also check out the Templates page for downloadable tools such as tracking forms for medications, diagnoses, and provider contacts.
We’ve got you covered. Visit:
Don’t forget the List of Templates and Sample Documents to help you draft strong, evidence-based requests and appeals.
Visit Research and Resources for websites, apps, and reference tools that make managing your care easier. You’ll also find a list of organizations that provide financial assistance.
Want to make a bigger impact? Visit Advocacy, Petitions, and Government Updates.
You’ll find ready-to-use letters and templates to contact policymakers and a curated list of professional contacts—no more digging for email addresses.
Share your story, ask for help, or collaborate on future projects through the Contact and Additional Information page. Whether you want to be featured on our blog or need support in your current battle, we’d love to hear from you.
Schedule a 20–30 minute phone call with us to go over your situation.
When you begin working with us one-on-one, we will ask you to complete a few forms, which may include:
Demographics Form
Release of Information
Intake Form
Other relevant documents
We may also ask for a photo or scan of the front and back of your insurance card(s). We request this information so we can help you as efficiently and effectively as possible. There is no fee for one-on-one meetings.
Once your paperwork is completed, please email:
Completed forms
Photos of the front and back of your insurance card
Any documentation, EOBs, denial letters, or related records
to AKG.Advocacy@outlook.com.
You don’t have to navigate this alone. We’re here to walk with you. 💙