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Once your dog arrives, they will NEED TIME to decompress.
Bringing a rescue dog into your home is a life-changing experience, but before the tail wags and bonding moments begin, your new pup needs one essential thing: time to decompress.
Why is decompression this so crucial?
Dogs from rescues often come with a history of trauma, stress, or instability and their transition to a new home requires patience and understanding. Decompression is the critical first step to help your dog feel safe and secure.
What if I skip this step?
Skipping this step can lead to anxiety, mistrust, behaviour issues, damages, injuries and deaths.
Remember:
These are ANIMALS- they are rescue dogs, not perfect pets
they will make mistakes
They often have no manners or obedience
Keep safety at the forefront of your mind at all times!
failure to prioritize safety can result in deadly consequences
It is up to YOU to set them up for success!
Start your journey right. Give your dog the time they deserve to decompress and thrive.
Life before and in Rescue
Some may have never lived indoors or interacted with people, other dogs, children, or cats.
While fosters share all they observe about each dog's temperament, behaviours can change based on environment and caregiver.
Coming off the transport truck / Arriving to you
These dogs have been uprooted, placed on a loud truck for three days. They have no clue where the are or who you are. They don't know you and they don't trust you (yet).
This can be an immensely traumatic experience.
Bringing your dog into your home
Your new dog may be stressed, exhausted, nervous, scared, protective, or overstimulated. They may not even want to approach you or eat right away.
Keep their environment calm. Don’t pressure them to explore or meet anyone.
Don’t rush the process—let them adjust at their own pace.
The 3-3-3 rule highlights the common milestones your dog will go through as they settle:
first 3 days
3 weeks
3 months
This is a general guide - some dogs can take 6 months to fully decompress.
This dog is adjusting to a whole new world and it is up to you to manage your own expectations.
Be patient
Be consistent
Be their advocate
This Guide offers DOZENS of resources.
Please click each drop down and take the time to read thoroughly!
Also Check out more info on our Common Behaviours & Resources to Help,
Dog Body Language, Muzzle Training, Dog Fights pages!
Keep other animals separate and allow your new dog at least an hour a day to explore their new environment freely and without distractions for the first 3–4 days. Every dog adjusts at their own pace—while four days is a general guideline, some may need more time to feel comfortable.
Why?
This helps them familiarize themselves with their surroundings and learn through scent in a low pressure setting. Dogs learn much about the world through scent.
Suggested Resources:
What is decompression- https://nycsecondchancerescue.org/decompression/
Decompression and integration- https://www.doggedly.org/amp/decompression-integration
Decompressing your new dog- https://youtu.be/2UelQrvNvg8
Decompress for success- https://decompressforsuccess.com/nine-steps-to-success
Puppy survival guide, the first 24 hours- https://youtu.be/zt3AVydlc2g
Puppy Development: Stages from birth to two years old- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/puppy-development-stages-birth-two-years-old
Rescue Dogs After Adoption- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/puppy-mill-rescue-dogs-transition-home-life#Potential
Training a Rescue Dog: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wc6FZWGlQTk
Bringing home a Rescue Dog: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MfV97DUpWiQ
Adopting a Rescue dog:https://www.rescuedogs101.com/first-7-days-bringing-adopted-dog-home/
Kennel dogs ANY time they can't be supervised.
This means your dog needs to be in a safe and secure place ANY time you can't see them
ex: crate, designated room
Provide your new dog with a safe, quiet space to rest and sleep, such as a kennel placed in a separate room.
This space should be exclusively theirs—always keep it free from other pets or children.
Never leaving food unattended in the crate.
Keep kennel in a separate room for at least the first week.
Remember that crating is not a punishment; this is to keep them and others safe.
Why?
Keeping the dog separate when you aren't there minimizes risk of them getting injured, them injuring someone/another pet, damaging something, etc.
NOT ALL DOGS ARE GOING TO LIKE / GET ALONG WITH ALL DOGS ALL THE TIME
Even dogs who live with other dogs daily have never had issues before, can still chase, play too rough, fight and cause serious harm or death.
For safety - mistakes happen quickly and often when we least expect them.
Suggested Resources:
Crate Training a Dog- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/crate-training-dog-dog-training-plan
What to do about your dogs' separation anxiety- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aW1pfEtlPw
Separation Anxiety in Dogs- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/separation-anxiety-dogs
Successful alone time- https://www.doggyeinsteinstraining.com/resources.html
Provide routine (ex. potty breaks)
House training regression is common in both puppies and adult dogs, even those previously described as "house trained." They’ll need guidance to re-learn. Keep in mind that dogs feel vulnerable while going to the bathroom and may initially be too nervous to relax. Take them out regularly to provide opportunities for success.
Why?
Establishing predictable daily patterns helps your dog feel secure and understand what to expect.
Suggested Resources:
Importance of routine for your dog- https://k9turbotraining.com/the-importance-of-routine-for-your-dog/
How to handle potty training regression- https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=THZNO0zX_pg
Marking in the house- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/dog-marking-and-peeing-house
House training a dog- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/housetraining-dog
Puppy Potty training- https://bestfriends.org/stories/features/puppy-potty-training
Supervise all dog & dog interactions.
Leash dogs for all initial introductions when meeting any other dogs and supervise all dog & dog interactions.
Take your dogs on a walk together to build trust and foster a sense of safety.
Walking side by side helps establish a bond without the potential stress of direct, face-to-face greetings, which can feel confrontational.
Begin these joint walks at least a day after the initial introduction, allowing time for both dogs to adjust.
Avoid through-the-fence or kennel meetings, as these interactions can create unnecessary tension.
Keep in mind that leash communication is a learned skill for both you and your new dog.
They need guidance to understand how to respond effectively.
Always use a secure martingale collar or harness during walks to prevent accidental slips.
Why?
NOT ALL DOGS ARE GOING TO LIKE / GET ALONG WITH ALL DOGS ALL THE TIME
Even dogs who live with other dogs daily or have never had issues before, can still chase, play too rough, fight and cause serious harm or death.
For safety - mistakes happen quickly and often when we least expect them.
Supervision is essential as they learn to coexist peacefully.
Suggested Resources:
How to Introduce Dogs- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/learn-how-properly-introduce-new-dogs
How to introduce your dog to dogs:https://youtu.be/HwXNXbg9qDI
How to introduce a new dog to your other pets- https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HwXNXbg9qDI
(for kennel reactive dogs please reach out to your chat for support and suggestions)
Dog Barrier Frustration and Aggression- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/dog-barrier-frustration-and-aggression
Dog Fence Aggression- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/managing-barrier-reactivity
Play bows-Animals at play- https://fb.watch/gqfnbHJFrk/
Introducing a new dog to your home- https://k9turbotraining.com/introducing-a-new-dog-to-your-home/
10 tips to teach your reactive dog to stay calm - https://be.chewy.com/10-tips-to-teach-your-reactive-dog-to-stay-calm/
Mistakes people make when teaching how to walk on leash - https://youtu.be/WVYJVAi1bW0
Leash Reactivity- Leash Reactivity: A Comprehensive Training Guide - Peach on a Leash
Reducing Leash Reactivity- Reducing Leash Reactivity: The Engage-Disengage Game | Karen Pryor Clicker Training
Why does my dog bark at other dogs- https://k9turbotraining.com/why-does-my-dog-bark-at-other-dogs/
Making sense of loose leash walking- https://k9turbotraining.com/making-sense-of-loose-leash-walking/
What to do if your dog gets loose- https://k9turbotraining.com/what-to-do-if-your-dog-gets-loose/
Dog Politics: Understanding Dog-Dog Tolerance Levels- https://vimeo.com/210692574
Dog Introductions https://vimeo.com/214700035
Dog to Dog Introductions-https://docs.google.com/document/d/1PpSFqwhkL3AgudpKLfgmwtsoU1x4EC0LwBz0dBNL5vs/edit
Supervise all interactions dog & cat / small animal interactions.
Leash dogs when meeting any cats or other small animals and supervise all interactions.
NEVER leave your dog alone with cats or other small animals unsupervised
Take things slow and focus on creating positive, calm associations between them.
Keep in mind that cats can be quick and unpredictable, which may trigger a chase instinct in your dog.
Gradually introduce them in controlled environments, and always supervise their interactions to ensure everyone's well-being.
Why?
NOT ALL DOGS ARE GOING TO LIKE / GET ALONG WITH ALL CATS ALL THE TIME
Even dogs who live with other pets daily or have never had issues before, can still chase, play too rough, fight and cause serious harm or death.
For safety - mistakes happen quickly and often when we least expect them.
Supervision is essential as they learn to coexist peacefully.
Suggested Resources:
How to Introduce a Dog to a Cat- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/how-introduce-dog-cat
Introducing cats and kittens to dogs- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/successfully-introducing-cats-and-kittens-dogs
Introducing dogs to cats (video)- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BRlxhvQ8I9g
Dog Chasing Cat- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/dog-chasing-cat-tips-stopping-behavior
Introducing a puppy to a Cat for the first time- https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=THZNO0zX_pg
How to train your dog to leave your cat alone- https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=THZNO0zX_pg
Introducing your New dog to cats- https://www.maddiesfund.org/introducing-your-new-dog-to-cats.htm
Look at that:Dog training plan- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/look-lat-dog-training-plan?fbclid=IwAR24bb1Ado1mBWi4mREVfNFK-0BETgHYHoPccFSj7R0VJxg7n3sEYXfnFVw
Introduction to cats- https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LWNjy-U70R11wIpoGJ6KpJ8uN3TEEvguKQ2bC14-2xw/edit
Supervise all dog & child / other adult interactions.
Leash dogs when meeting children or any other adults or the elderly and supervise all interactions.
Always supervise interactions between your dog and children, and ensure the child understands how to approach and interact with the dog respectfully and safely.
NEVER leave your dog alone with children unsupervised.
Proper guidance and supervision help create a positive environment for both your dog and your child.
Why?
NOT ALL DOGS ARE GOING TO LIKE / GET ALONG WITH ALL PEOPLE ALL THE TIME
Even dogs who live with kids daily or have never had issues before, can still cause serious harm or death.
For safety - mistakes happen quickly and often when we least expect them.
Supervision is essential as they learn to coexist peacefully.
Suggested Resources:
Prevent ‘dog bites child’ scenario- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/dog-bites-child-how-prevent-scenario
Kids and pets- Experts Advise How to Introduce Your Kids to Dogs & Cats (rover.com)
How to introduce dogs and kids- How to Introduce Dogs to Kids & Kids to Dogs: The Ultimate Guide – Kid Friendly Pets
How to stop dogs from jumping on people- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/how-stop-dog-jumping-people?fbclid=IwAR3fq0OMYDrvVbw1IELbqcxIgbcdhO6NQ1rlC9RVPO5K-v0qXbNTU5B7a7c_aem_Ab2Ee3sw-iPIJCmpzn3JZY0Kjv8JPq4DmqnzCNHLPgIHsbXge1GDddcr_KJy-4IRj8o
Dog Meets Baby- https://www.dogmeetsbaby.expert/links?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZTNcpzHJduOOciqbEtn9AQJLNrf6p5beVyGnmNf0n_CcBunOWK5X5q57k_aem_AWfUhFGQLu2Qr1acxzGgJfQmj2LNIZF9QyUXbaN_0rgOvwkIRgsFLmxUTmFujtZ4K9zyaeF_4zXs80hwaPhcsSyt / https://www.instagram.com/dogmeets_baby?igsh=NHAxaTdvb2I0Mnh0
Always feed them all separate from all other pets and kids to keep everyone safe. This includes treats and high value items such as bones.
Why?
Feeding dogs separately is important to prevent resource guarding, reduce stress, and avoid potential conflicts over food.
It helps each dog feel safe and secure, ensuring they can eat at their own pace without feeling threatened by others.
Allows you to monitor their eating habits more closely.
Suggested Resources:
Food aggression prevention- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/dog-food-aggression-prevention
Food Aggression in Dogs- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/food-aggression-dogs-management
Keep toys put away.
Keep toys put away and supervised initially, to avoid potential conflict/resource guarding.
Dogs can guard a variety of things, from socks and toys to food, people, and even specific areas of the home. It's important to be aware of this behaviour and approach any guarding issues with patience and training. Proper management is key.
Why?
Helps decrease the risk of confict and overstimulation
Kids don't always like to share their toys or their parent - you dog might not either.
Suggested Resources:
How to Teach a Dog to Trade- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/how-teach-dog-trade
Teaching trades- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/teaching-trades-dog-training-plan
Establish yourself in the “pack leadership role”.
Take the time to teach your new dog what is acceptable in your home. Leadership isn’t about dominance, but about building trust and showing your dog that they can rely on you. Be patient and remain calm—dogs thrive when they have a confident leader to guide them, and they will respond positively when they feel secure in your direction.
Why?
Creates trust in you and increases confidence in your dog
Suggested Resources:
How to establish leadership over a dog without being a meanie- How to Establish Leadership Over a Dog (Without Being a Meanie Pants) - Petful
Mouthing, nipping, and play biting- https://www.aspca.org/pet-care/dog-care/common-dog-behavior-issues/mouthing-nipping-and-play-biting-adult-dogs
How to stop dog mouthing- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/how-stop-dog-mouthing?fbclid=IwAR1N7OP4NbDSNNuml77-46B77jGfKxX9CwppjO-MCwEMjUKdNoISZIrSaJQ_aem_Ab3G4NawRJeYb01BgoNPw6JY5xp2I7YbD9t-JsiG4vBHJRx9S_wz8sg-aGLR620Uz0A
Why does my dog put their mouth and paw on me? https://www.dogsforgood.org/good-advice/why-does-my-dog-put-their-mouth-and-paw-on-me/#:~:text=Many%20dogs%20will%20put%20their,but%20often%20continues%20into%20adulthood
Dog chewing and how to redirect it- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/dog-chewing-and-how-redirect-it
Stop dog barking- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/stop-dog-barking
Submissive urination- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/submissive-urination-and-excited-peeing-dogs
Stop Dog Barking- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/stop-dog-barking
How to get your dog to stop barking- https://www.humanesociety.org/resources/how-get-your-dog-stop-barking
Manage the environment.
You dog won’t understand what’s expensive, sentimental, or dangerous.
To prevent trouble, put away things like garbage cans, food, shoes, TV remotes, and socks.
If your dog gets into something they shouldn’t, take responsibility for not managing the environment.
Why?
Simply put, if there’s nothing for them to get into, they can’t get into trouble.
The more opportunities your dog has to engage in undesirable behaviours, the more likely those behaviours are to become reinforced.
Suggested Resources:
Counter Surfing- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/dog-counter-surfing-prevention-and-deterrents
What is management- https://k9turbotraining.com/what-is-management/
What is enrichment- https://k9turbotraining.com/enrichment-living-a-bowl-free-lifestyle/
Dog training 101- https://www.thesprucepets.com/steps-to-train-your-dog-1118273
10 Exercise alternatives- https://k9turbotraining.com/10-exercise-alternatives-for-reactive-dogs/
Give your dog time and go slow!
This is often the hardest part for new pet parents and often this is where people fail!
Every dog is unique and has different needs, so some may require more time than others. It’s important to let your dog set the pace and follow their cues. Some dogs might need weeks or even months to fully decompress and adjust to their new environment. Patience is key during this process.
Why?
Rushing decompression and not having realistic expectations of that behaviours a dog might have, trusting that they won't make any mistakes, or not providing clear and consitent boundaries sets both you and the dog up to fail!
Don't be nervous.
Don't be nervous when your dogs first meet other animals or people.
Be calm and watch carefully.
Why?
Dogs pick up on stress and anxiety and it will affect the environment they are in.
Suggested Resources:
Dog Body Language Interpretation- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/dog-body-language
Dog sociability is a spectrum- https://www.everydogaustin.org/post/spectrum
What is your dog telling you- https://www.confident-dog.com/infographics?pgid=iz34dgfx-11b85905-a3b6-4b4a-8c87-f2b029d3cd5b
What is trigger stacking https://k9turbotraining.com/what-is-trigger-stacking/
Reading cut-off signals in play- Teaching Your Puppy to Read Cut-off Signals in Play | K9 Turbo Training
Introducing your dog to strangers:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-GGGZ6CSpZo
Don't go to dog parks or doggy daycares.
Overcrowded areas such as or dog parks or doggy daycares are too overcrowded and too much stimulation too soon, and not all dogs will do well in that setting
These places are often busy with lots of dogs, loud noises, and fast-paced activity, which can be stressful for a dog who isn't used to that level of stimulation. Some dogs may not enjoy the chaotic atmosphere or may feel anxious, fearful, or even territorial.
Why?
Not every dog is social or enjoys the company of many other dogs
IT IS NOT A REALISTIC EXPECTAION THAT YOUR DOG WILL LIKE OR GET ALONG WITH ALL DOGS
Forcing them into situations can lead to stress, anxiety, or even aggressive behaviour.
Suggested Resources:
What is socialization- https://k9turbotraining.com/what-is-socialization/
Dog park FAQ’s- https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/dog-parks-rules-leash-parks-dogs-safety-and-etiquette
Don't use the crate as a punishment
Crates are a safe space. This is where they can go when they need space, when they feel overwhelmed, where no one bothers or touches them and where they can go when no one is home to supervise
Why?
Crating as punishment creates a negative, possibly traumatic association with the crate.
Reliable recall training takes a long time
Get a long line - this way they have the freedom of space but they are safely attached to you.
Why?
Your dog could run away or approach other dogs who may be not friendly etc.
They may run after a small animal or child
This is not worth the risk
Why?
This facilitates barrier reactivity and aggression
Why?
New people may overwhelm your dog
Your dog might not like all people
Why?
This is for safety.
Even after your dog is fully integrated into your household, this is just not worth the risk.
Accidents happen quickly and the consequences can be deadly.
NOT ALL DOGS ARE GOING TO LIKE / GET ALONG WITH ALL OTHER DOGS OR PETS ALL THE TIME
Even dogs who live with other dogs/other pets daily or have never had issues before, can still chase, play too rough, fight and cause serious harm or death.
And Never leave the dog outside unattended in a new area- even if it’s fenced
Why?
This just isn't safe.
Dogs can easily destroy property, escape, hurt themselves/others or escape.
Leaving your dog with other pets unattended can cause serious harm and even death!
Even a dog who becomes fully integrated into your home and they've never had an issue NEEDS to be crated or in a separate secure place when left unattended.
Why?
Feeding together can result in fights, bites, resources guarding and other issues. Just feed the dog in another room (door closed) or in a crate.
This includes treats.
NEVER mess with the dogs food. Don't put your hands in it, don't try to take it away - feed them in a safe, separated place and let them eat.
This includes physically/mentally/emotionally.
You are damaging your relationship and setting your dog up for behavioural issues and trauma.
Use positive reinforcement and give love and praise. Reward good behaviours.
This webinar, "New Dog in a Nutshell," is a comprehensive, informative session packed with essential tips, tricks, and insights. It's a must-watch for anyone preparing to welcome a new dog into their home!
This Video can help set you and your new dog up for a successful and smooth transition!
Check out more info on our Common Behaviours & Resources to Help, Dog Body Language, Muzzle Training, Dog Fights pages!