Responding well to concerns includes five steps:
Recognise that a person may be at risk of harm or abuse.
Respond by taking appropriate action in a sensitive and timely way.
Record the concerns or disclosures of abuse that have been made.
Report any concerns to the right person so action can be taken.
Reflect on what happened and act on any learning.
Handling a safeguarding disclosure can feel daunting, but your calm, compassionate response makes a vital difference. By choosing your words carefully and following key protocols, you help create a safe, supportive environment for everyone involved.
In navigating the sensitive and complex process of a safeguarding concern, the language you use is as important as the actions you take. Your words must be chosen carefully to ensure clarity, compassion, and strict adherence to protocol.
Recognise
Please see 'Recognising Signs of Abuse'
Respond
Be factual and non-judgmental: Stick to the facts. Don't offer opinions, speculation, or personal feelings. Your role is to manage the process, not to judge the people involved.
Maintain confidentiality: Do not share their information with anyone unless advised to do so by the safeguarding team or a professional. This protects everyone and manages expectations.
Reassure, but don't promise: Reassure people that they will be supported and that the process is designed to protect them but never promise a specific outcome or confidentiality you can't guarantee.
Use a calm and measured tone: Your tone of voice and body language should convey professionalism and empathy, helping to keep a difficult conversation grounded.
Record
It’s important to record accurate and detailed notes on any concerns you have about a child or adult at risk. In addition, the following principles should be considered:
Do not investigate or ask any leading questions
Make notes as soon as is practicable after receiving the disclosure or observing the incident, and report this within 24 hours at the most
Be clear and factual in your recording of the incident or disclosure
Avoid giving your opinion or feelings on the matter
Do not share this information with anyone else except the Safeguarding Lead
Report
You must share these with the Safeguarding Lead and include:
The child’s details (name, age, address)
What the child said or did that raised the cause for concern (if the child made a verbal disclosure, write down their exact words)
Any information the child has given you about the person reported to have carried out the abuse
Next Steps: Transfer your notes to the official Recording a Cause for Concern Form (SV Safeguarding Policy -Appendix 7) and follow Stirling Vineyard's guidelines for confidential data storage.
Reflect
Where the first four Rs deal with managing the concern, Reflect ensures that every safeguarding situation drives growth, accountability, and a safer organisational environment. Please speak to the Safeguarding Lead if you need any further support, resources or training.