never pants (till she was over 60!) the blue polka dot onefor special occasionsshe wore with hergrandmother pinwhen we went to Derbygreatest food on earthSaturday morning pancakesSunday dinner fried chickenlilacs blossomed everywhererose scented perfumeben gay and dippity doo"It was darker than a stack a black cats"
the night her grandma died
I remember her story
vividly
brave warrior
stole coal from train cars
to heat their home
started work at 12
to feed 11 young siblings
helped the garment union
get fair wages for women
worked hard all her life
widowed too young
my father left
she picked up the slack
made sure we always had
all we needed
and more
walked down the tracks
to our side of town
to babysit while Mom worked
sturdy, stubborn.
funny, friendly,
matriarch, Goddess
© 2006
photo: Greatest Grandmother Ever: Helen Elizabeth Kellar with my daughter, Rebecca Jean Combs
© 1990
Grandma wore dresses,