For Parents

Tips for Parents

Connecting with Your Child’s School Counselor for a Successful School Year

1. Understand the expertise and responsibilities of your child’s school counselor.

School counselors make a measurable impact in every student’s life, assisting with academic,

career and personal/social development. Professional school counselors are trained in both

educating and counseling, allowing them to function as a facilitator between parents, teachers

and the student in matters concerning the student’s goals, abilities and any areas needing

improvement. School counselors provide services not only to students in need, but to all


2. Meet or contact your child’s school counselor at least three times per school year.

The beginning of a school year is an excellent opportunity to initiate contact with your

child’s school counselor and doing so can ensure your child’s positive school experience.

Find out who the counselor is and what his or her experience and background are. By

communicating with one another at the beginning, middle, and end of the school year,

parents and counselors can have a definite impact on a child’s success.

3. Discuss your child’s challenges and concerns with the school counselor.

As a parent, you know your child best. However, the school counselor can help you better

understand your child as a student. It’s important to encourage your child’s expression of

needs, hopes and frustrations. School counselors are trained to help your children.

4. Learn about your child’s school and social connections from the school counselor.

When you need information or assistance, your child’s school counselor can help you get in

touch with the appropriate school officials; learn about school policies on behavior,

attendance, and dress; know the school calendar of important dates and stay connected with

the school in many other ways. The school counselor can also help you locate resources in

the community when you need them.

5. Work with the school counselor to identify resources and find solutions to problems.

If your child is having a problem at school, it is important to work with your child’s school

counselor to find solutions. Discuss resources available within and outside of the school, and

get information on how such programs can benefit your child. Your school counselor can be

a valuable partner in your child’s education and preparation for life beyond school.

Parents can go to to learn more about the various roles of school

counselors and how to work with the counselor to help their child achieve success in the new

school year.