Is it a Big problem or a small problem? Big problems are when you are not safe and you need an adult. Small problems are when you are safe - DO THE KELSO !
Kelso's wheel helps students solve problems using talking strategies and quiet strategies. With small problems, students should try a talking strategy and a quiet strategy.ย
Quiet strategies:ย
Go to another game
Walk away
Wait and cool off (try a regulation strategy like breathing or counting)ย
Ignore
Talking strategies:ย
Talk it out
Make a deal (use Rock, Paper, Scissors)ย
Tell them to stop (use I feel_____, when you______, I want_______.)ย
Apologize (use the 4 levels of apology)
Share & take turns
Cool Off (wipe back of hand across forehead),ย
Walk away (Walk in place),
Find another game to play (Pretend to shoot a basket)
Talk it over (Have two hands talk to each other)
Make a Deal (Have same hands shake each other)
CโMon everybody do the Wheel (Keep hands clasped and move them in a circle in front of you at the same time you move your hips in a circle)
Do the Kelso (Clap,Clap), Do the Kelso (Clap,Clap)
Say your sorry ( Hands half way raised, palms up on your side, head tilted)
Tell them to stop (One hand straight out in front with a stop motion)
Take Turns (Turn in a circle)
Ignore a lot (Take oneย hand in front of face with palm toward face and move it down from top of head to below chin with a serious face)
Do the Kelso (Clap,Clap), Do the Kelso (Clap,Clap)
(When teaching the quiet Kelso strategies you can practice the chant with only body motions and mouthing words without sounds.)