Grief
Grief doesn't have to be just in relation to death. Grief can be experienced in relation to a loss of any kind, whether it's a friend or loved one moving away or moving out, or any significant loss a person has experienced.
by Patrice Karst
A story about always being connected by hearts through an invisible string of love.
Here are some helpful links to assist you when helping a child go through a loss:
- https://www.kidshealth.org.nz/bereavement-reactions-children-young-people-age-group
- Reactions and what to do to help support these children
The following links are not currently working, but I am working, as the webpages have been altered, but I am working on a solution:
http://csu-cvmbs.colostate.edu/Documents/argus-2011-01-grief-children.pdf
https://highland.slcschools.org/academics/counseling-center/documents/HealingActivitiesforGrievingChildrenandTeens.pdf
-A workbook of activities for children of all ages (*Please note that there is mention of "God" in some of these activities. I didn't want to exclude this workbook, because many people turn to their faith in these times, and they may find those activities helpful. You may choose to change that to something that suits your family's religious/spiritual beliefs. This resource, I feel, has many valuable and helpful activities and just like any activity within, you may pick and choose what works best for you and your family's needs, and exclude those that wouldn't apply to you or you wouldn't find helpful.)
"Children may find it difficult to express their grief verbally or may be reluctant to talk out of fear of upsetting those around them. By making a memory box together, it can create an opportunity to talk about the person you have both lost, help your child to open up about their feelings, and allow you both to share memories and reflect on your loved one."
https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/blog/2017/12/26/memory-boxes-and-childhood-bereavementA story about Remembering
"Finding ways to celebrate and remember someone who has died can provide both comfort and a feeling of connection. For children, and even grown-ups, it can be hard to know where to begin. In this story, you and your child will join Elmo’s cousin Jesse as she discovers simple everyday ways to remember her father through familiar routines, favorite songs, stories, and special comfort items. Talk together about the different things that she does. Some might be just right for you and your child to try, too."
The loss of a pet
Activities
- Create a Memory Box for your pet
A Special Guide for Parents and Caregivers